Stage 1: Do Epic First
The hardest step is often skipped: you need real skills, accomplishments, or unique opinions before you start creating content. The proof is the pudding, audiences value experience over effort.
Two Ways to Win
- Accomplish something that demonstrates expertise
- Show the volume of work (e.g., document 10,000 outreach attempts)
People want speed. They want the CliffNotes, but you must write the book first. They'll bargain with attention for condensed lessons. This aligns with the 7 Proven Steps to Build a Profitable Personal Brand for Founders, which also emphasizes foundational credibility.
Stage 2: Associate Yourself with Positive Things
Once you have credibility, pair yourself repeatedly with what your ideal customer finds positive. This creates strong associations over time.
Visual Associations
- Consistent appearance (beard, hat, flannel, tank top) builds recognition
- Think Steve Jobs (turtleneck) or Superman (S on chest)
Non-Visual Associations
- Know your avatar: growing market, in pain, can afford your solution, easy to find
- Figure out what they like
- Associate your brand through content, products (free and paid), and appearing next to people they admire
Mastering this association technique is a cornerstone of the Unlocking Personal Branding Success: The Three-Pillar Method for Rapid Growth.
Examples of Association Mistakes
- Bud Light × Dylan Mulvaney: good for left-leaning audiences, wrong for core beer drinkers (later repaired with UFC)
- Coca-Cola AI Christmas ad: AI is polarizing, clashed with their "open happiness" brand
Virtuous Cycle of Branding
- We say → first level of branding
- People consume → what others say
- Customer buys → their opinion ultimately matters most
Stage 3: Defend the Belt
Once at the top, you must stay relevant. Big brands get nibbled away by smaller, hungrier players.
How to Defend
- Create aspirational public goals that scare you and have real stakes
- Set dates and let the world know, this aligns teams and generates energy
- Have consistent "belt moments": book launches, product reveals, milestone sales, championships
Why Sports Stay Relevant
- They play a championship every year
- People immediately talk about next season
- You're only as good as your last season
For a deeper dive on content strategies that support these stages, see the Proven LinkedIn Content Strategy to Build Executive Personal Brands.
Key Takeaways
- Do epic: accomplish or show massive work
- Associate repeatedly with what your audience values
- Defend the belt: create stakes, public goals, and keep proving your worth
To further refine your approach, explore Mastering Personal Branding: Stand Out in a Crowded Market for additional insights on differentiation.
In a world of AI, building a personal brand is one of the most valuable things that you can do. And that's what helped
us generate through our portfolio companies over $250 million a year. And we recently broke the Guinness World
Record for the fastest selling non-fiction book of all time. Money models generate $106 million in sales in
72 hours. So in this video, I want to show you three stages that I went through in building a personal brand and
how you can do the same. So starting with stage one is do epic And the reason that everyone skips this step
because it's probably the hardest step, right? Because every 23-year-old wants to start a personal brand because they
see it online, right? And what everyone forgets is the personal part. Not making videos or posting, but actually having
real skills, accomplishments, or opinions or takes that are worth watching in the first place. But what
makes an opinion worthwhile, right? You have unique insights or experience that the audience doesn't have, and that's
why they value what you're saying. And so, if you want an epic personal brand, you have to do epic first. The
proof is in the pudding. And it's not even in the pudding. The proof is the pudding. Right? You'll build a bigger
brand making content for 6 months after a decade of experience than you will off a decade of content with only six months
of experience. All right? Because no one cares about your opinion until they know it's worth something. And so you have to
back up your talk with your walk. And so think do demonstration. And there's two ways to win uh in terms of doing
this, which is that you have some thing that you accomplish, right? or you could do so much work that people want to
bargain on that work. So, if I make content that's let's let's say I'm in the in the relationship romance niche,
right? If I go on a hundred dates and then I make a video about those 100 dates and it's 12 minutes long, I get
two seasons of The Bachelor in 12 minutes, that's a good deal. And so, if you think about what humans want out of
content is they want speed. This is education to be clear. They want speed. They want to bargain for their time. The
thing that we all feel like we don't have enough of is time. And so people will buy with their attention for things
that paid down the time that they don't have to spend and can get all the benefits. like why did um cliffnotes uh
boom back in the day which by the way if you're watching this probably don't know what cliff notes is because it was
something that I used to spark notes was something else and people would like you don't read Shakespeare you read the
cliff notes and you guys just watch it you know talk to AI and get it but like back in our day right we we still had to
read the cliff notes to pass the test right and so people want the cliff notes but you have to still write the book to
get the cliff notes and the cliffnotes are going to do more than the actual book will for many of you when you're
making content right they don't want to go through five years of entrepreneurship. They want to learn the
lessons in five minutes. Second stage is that once you have the cred, you associate yourself. And again, the
credibility can do from come from volume of work or volume of accomplishments. All right? It can come from either. So
if you're like, "Ah, but I haven't accomplished anything." It's yeah, show the work. Show the work. Do a thousand
uh outreach attempts. Do 10,000 doors that you knock on and document it. That is the work. People will happily not
want to do work. Watch you do work and then get the lessons from it. That's the idea. So anyways, stage two is once you
have that, associate yourself with positive things over and over again. So what do I mean by positive? The positive
has to do with what your audience or ideal customer finds positive, which also by the way means that you have to
know who you're going after. Branding people make feel like it's this big amorphous thing, but it's just
associating you with something else. So if you appear on a podcast with someone, you have a minor association. If that
podcast person becomes your co-host, it's a stronger association because it happens more and more times. And so just
think of them these pairings over and I have paired myself with a beard, a hat, uh the acquisition.com tank top,
flannels. So much so that there are Halloween costumes of flannels and and tank tops, right? Because I've made the
association so strong that people are like, "Oh, uh that guy's dressing up like Herozi, right?" But like
fundamentally, like there's nothing really inherently unique about a flannel or a tank top. It's that I do it every
single day. Now, if I say black tank, black turtleneck and jeans and New Balances, who do you think? Steve Jobs,
right? If I say red S on your chest, I can just give you that and you know it's Superman, right? Because in every single
appearance, he looks the same. And so, the association that's made is strong. So, that's a visual association. Now,
what we're talking about at a kind of the 2.0 level is what are the the nonvisual associations that we're
making, right? And so one is your brand and the other is the thing that your audience or customer likes. And so what
you do to do that is you figure out who your avatar is. Ideally a market that is growing, that is in pain, has a problem
to solve, can afford your stuff, and they're easy to find. All right. Now, the easy to find part is something that
in my first book, Offers, I talk about because back in the day, uh, algorithms weren't as good [laughter] as they are.
So you had to like put a beacon out saying this is for you. But AI knows who it's for now and just serve it directly.
Now once you know who they are, we have to figure out what they like. So then we associate ourselves, our brand through
the thing that they like, which is you make content about the thing they like, you make products they like, both free
and paid, and you appear next to the people they like. And so the example of this going wrong is uh Dylan Mulvaney
makes an ad for Budweiser and it went super viral. The problem is it went viral for the wrong reason because the
people who drink Bud Light and Budweiser don't like trans people. Now, to be clear, that's not all Budweiser drinkers
or all Bud Light drinkers. Uh but the majority of them didn't want that association. And so, they netted a loss
in revenue. And this is where this is gets interesting. I make no comment here. My point is that there is an
audience, a smaller audience that loved that association. It was just smaller than the core audience. And so Dylan
Mulvaney might be an amazing brand association for a different product or company who has an audience that like
maybe for Starbucks that would be a better association because they have a more leftleaning audience. I think so I
want to be clear there's no inherently good or bad association. It's just is it a good association for the ideal
customer that you have your ICP your avatar. And so if they like that association they will some of that those
cool points will rub off on you. And if you make a hundred cool associations, then all of a sudden you can just appear
without the association and some of that will rub off on you until eventually you become a brand. Right now, let me give
you one more example of of a bad way of doing it. And to be clear, some all these brands I'm talking about have been
masters at branding. And it's only a parent that made a mistake because of how strong their brands are, right? And
so what did the what did Budweiser do to repair that? They made a super strong association with UFC. And so for their
demographic, UFC uh was a great pairing for them. And so then they saw some recovery and they kind of became a
little bit uh you know, they moved to the right. We'll just call it that way. Real quick, I'm going to show you the
exact 10-stage road map from zero to 100 million plus that less than 1% of companies finish. I've now done multiple
times. And so I can say with a lot of confidence that these are the stages as headcount increases that you need to get
through. And I broke each of these down by eight different functions of the business. what the constraint feels
like, like what are the symptoms of it when you're going through it, and then what steps we actually took to graduate.
And we've done this across software, physical products, uh, service, businesses, brickandmortar, all of this,
and it works. And it's my gift to you. It's absolutely free. And so, the link's in the description, but you just go
acquisition.com/roadmap. Just enter your info and it'll spit it right back to you. All free. So, let me
give you another example of a big brand that made a big brand mistake. And you wouldn't even think about it at the
onset, but let's dive a little deeper. So Coca-Cola Classic made an ad around Christmas time that was like an AI
Christmas ad. And so I can almost think about the meeting of like it's like listen we got to lean into AI it's the
future all this stuff right and what ended up happening is that people backlashed against it because what is AI
associated with with the everyone well many people are very afraid of AI right and Coca-Cola has a very like I would
say vanilla Coca-Cola classic open happiness it's about as broad and general America and now global obviously
but like they want to just get everyone to drink their drink right they're not trying to be polar on any side of the of
the of the the train tracks, but AI is a very polarizing issue because so many people are afraid of it. And so by
associating themselves, because people would tell that it was AI uh with AI, then they're associated with job cuts,
job losses, big Fortune 500 companies cutting people out of creative departments, what about all the actors
they used to pay, blah blah blah blah blah blah, right? And it creates this wrong narrative. And so it wasn't even
that the ad was made with AI. It was that AI itself has a brand, which it does, and the pairing of Coca-Cola with
it was not good. Now, could Nvidia have an AI ad? Absolutely. Could Microsoft have an AI ad? For sure. Right? All of
these could have AI um ads and it would have been great. So, was an AI ad inherent inherently bad or good? It
depends on the brand. It depends on the reinforcement history, the associations that that brand made over time. And so
let me show you another big company that I would say is less cutting edge ironically, but Apple. And I would say
that if Steve Jobs were there, Siri probably would have been one of the first voice AIs and we would have had a
different product than they have, but that's okay. Um, anyways, um, but Apple made an ad purely with the human touch
side, but the idea was that was very wellreceived. And so if you think about Apple, like they're so big now that
they're like everybody's got iPhones. Like they're they're like Coca-Cola. They're general popular. They're
technically bigger than Coca-Cola, but like they're they're mass market, right? And so if you're ma marketing a mass
market, you have to think about mass market wants, which is a lot of times not necessarily what the people who are
making the ads like or what, which is why it's always about the customer. And so long term in the second step, we
associate oursel with cooler cooler things and people and we make content about it. And we just want to make sure
that our products match our promises. So we create a virtuous cycle of branding. what we say is the first level of
branding about ourselves. And then people consume our product and it's what other people say. And then finally, you
have a customer who heard what other people said and they buy it and then it's about what they say. And if you buy
a product, it doesn't matter how good the marketing was, you're going to make a decision about it. My favorite example
of this is like if you go to a movie, you're going to see a trailer. You might think, "Oh, that trailer was
interesting." And then a friend of yours sees the movie and you say, "Oh, how was it?" And the person might say, "Oh, the
movie was great." And then you say, "Fine, I'll go see it." And then when you see the movie, you will make the
decision and you will not care about the trailer and you will not care about what your friend said. Uh you will just care
what you think. And so ultimately, if that movie was good, you're more likely to see a movie with that actor or about
that topic or from that director or from that production studio as a result of that because they fulfilled their
promise, right? And so the idea is that once you do that process, the virtuous cycle of branding is you continue to do
that and then basically wait 5 years and don't give up. Now, the third and final step is what I'll call defending the
belt. All right? And so, what Coca-Cola, what Apple, what UFC, what these what these large brands have to do is once
you get to the top, you have to stay relevant, right? Because that's actually the thing that degrades these kind of
empires. So, like Rome was defeated by the barbarians, not by an on a head-on a head-on match, but because they nibbled
away at the borders, right? And so, brands once they're big, they get nibbled away into irrelevance, right?
All these little players do things that are a little bit more relevant for smaller audiences and they start gaining
market share. And so what does a big brand do to stay a big brand? You have to fight newer, hungrier challenges to
defend the belt. Like somebody can't just win the UFC and then say, "I've won forever, right? They've got to stay in
the title spot and let people take shots at them to usurp them, right?" And so a couple like one of my favorite examples
is obviously like Red Bull when they did a jump from outer space, right? Like why would an energy drink do a jump from
outer space because they have to take the most extreme example of craziness of like that guy must have been hopped up
on so much stuff to do something that insane and if he if he was able to do that then you know what maybe if I'm a
little bit tired they'll give me a little boost this afternoon. Right? And so you're defending the belt is doing an
aspirational thing that your audience finds cool or interesting. All right. And so the thing is is that if if if Red
Bull did that, but if they just stopped doing advertisements and they stopped doing big brand moments like that,
eventually they would fade into irrelevance when another uh energy drink company comes along that's new and hip.
So they've got to they got to show they got to kind of like put their fallus on the table, if you will, right? They got
to show people what's up. They got to show who daddy is. Like still remind them or mommy, what you know, whatever
your vibe is, right? Um you still got to say who's boss, who can still who can still show up. like can Jon Jones still
show up and still put a hurting on someone, right? And so let me give you a couple examples of this. Like Apple, you
know, and Steve Jobs famously did these big big huge keynotes like those were these huge events, these brand moments
of their innovations, what they had done, right? Uh Elon is famous for doing these these big uh you know Tesla, he
did the robo taxis, he did the Optibbots for us. We do our, you know, we did the book launches. We did the launch for the
leads book. We did the launch for the money models book. I sold the company. This, that was kind of my first big
brand moan, if you will, um, of selling the company for just under 50 million bucks. And so each of these things are
brand moments that are aspirational for the target audience, right? Um, Open AAI and, uh, and Claude, when they when they
go make their updates, they make big fanfare about it. And so, you have to have these belt moments. And what I
think is really interesting, I'd say for me as a business owner, shifting a little bit towards uh business, it
underpins branding is that internally I can tell you when you have this big goal and it has to be public. That's the
thing. It's like you have to kind of like set the date, make the shot across the bow, and you've got to let the world
know that you're going to do this thing. And the amount of energy that it incites within the team and the alignment of
where we're going is unbeatable. And this is why you hear the Steve Jobs and the Elon Musks talk about these insane
timelines and they're so demanding because they know they've got this public thing that they can't cancel.
There is a reason that sports has maintained relevance for such a long time. And why is that? Because they play
a championship every year. Literally 7 days after the championship over like no one even pays attention to it. They're
literally all the commenters are talking about what's next season going to look like, who's who's on the waiver wire,
who's getting traded, what coaches are moving around. people move on, but they need to have this thing. And you know
what? You're only as good as your last season, right? If you were Super Bowl champ and the next season, you go one in
one in, you know, 15 or one and 16 or whatever it is, um, you're no longer relevant. So, you have to keep defending
the belt, right? You have, if you want to create a brand, you're trying to create a dynasty. What do you do right
now? Number one, do epic in terms of volume or a quality outcome. So, big accomplishment or lots of work that you
can show your work for. And that becomes your initial content. Then we continue with this loop by associating with the
stuff that people want. So business owners want to make money. Uh girls want to get pretty or they want to lose
weight. We associate with those things and we associate with the people that those people find cool or interesting.
And we do that pairing over and over and over again. And then some of those people say, "Wow, this person uh is cool
and so I want to buy their stuff." And you just need to make sure that your stuff fulfills the promise and is also
cool and good. When that happens, you start to build yourself a brand. You now have a brand at that point. When you've
completed that loop, at this point, you just continue that loop as much as you can, but you still need to have the
third step, which is you have to defend the belt. You got to find these big moments, these big external goals that
you can drive towards things that scare you, things where you actually have real stakes. That's the thing that people
make like you have to have stakes. You have to have skin in the game. Otherwise, it's not interesting. What is
the first thing that happens in every reality show? They show the big amount of money, right? Who wants to be a
millionaire? There's a million dollars. There's inherent stakes. And so you have to create stakes both within the company
because if we don't do this, we're going to be humiliated. We're going to miss our goals. Uh we could we could lose a
lot of money and that puts everyone's jobs at risk. Like there's real stakes inside the company, but because of that
people out on the outside, it makes you and the goal more interesting. And so what do they do? They pay you the
attention.
The first stage is 'Do Epic First,' which means you need to develop real skills, accomplishments, or unique opinions before you start creating content. You must either accomplish something that demonstrates expertise or show the volume of work (e.g., documenting 10,000 outreach attempts) to prove your value to the audience.
You can use both visual and non-visual associations. Visual consistency (like a beard, hat, or tank top) helps with recognition, similar to Steve Jobs’ turtleneck. Non-visual methods include knowing your target audience (growing, in pain, able to pay, easy to find), figuring out what they like, and associating your brand through content, products, and appearing alongside people they admire.
A common mistake is associating with something that alienates your core audience. For example, Bud Light’s partnership with Dylan Mulvaney appealed to left-leaning audiences but clashed with their core beer drinkers (later fixed with UFC). Similarly, Coca-Cola’s AI Christmas ad was polarizing and conflicted with their 'open happiness' brand.
The virtuous cycle has three levels: what you say, what people consume (what others say about you), and what customers buy. The most important level is the customer’s opinion because their purchase decisions ultimately define your brand’s success. You must align all three levels for sustainable growth.
To stay relevant, you must create aspirational public goals that scare you and have real stakes, set dates, and share them with the world. Consistent 'belt moments' (book launches, product reveals, milestone sales) build energy and align your team. Sports stay relevant by having a championship each year, reminding everyone you’re only as good as your last season.
The video advises documenting your journey in detail, like showing 10,000 outreach attempts, because audiences value experience and proof over mere claims. They want condensed lessons (CliffNotes) but need to see the effort behind them. This builds trust and credibility, making your content more engaging and authentic.
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