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Daniel Barada

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[00:01]

All right. Hello and welcome to this

[00:03]

training. As you can see from the title,

[00:05]

what we're going to be covering today is

[00:07]

the hidden power of doing nothing. And

[00:09]

as you can see from the overview, what

[00:11]

we're going to be talking about more

[00:12]

specifically is first the overview

[00:14]

itself, then the clutter problem, the

[00:17]

purge ritual, the new input, the review,

[00:20]

and your action items for the day or the

[00:23]

next few days. So without further ado,

[00:25]

let's get started and talk about the

[00:27]

clutter problem. So most people uh

[00:31]

operate with a mind that's basically

[00:33]

carrying more than it can handle and the

[00:35]

weight builds slowly and you wake up

[00:37]

already thinking about unfinished tasks,

[00:40]

old messages and some loose plans for

[00:42]

the week. And as the day goes on more

[00:44]

gets added and the next day some more.

[00:46]

And after a while your mind starts to

[00:48]

feel crowded and even basic decisions

[00:50]

take more effort than they actually

[00:52]

should. And you don't you don't really

[00:55]

always notice this buildup is actually

[00:58]

happening, but you feel the effects. You

[01:00]

lose focus more quickly. You jump

[01:02]

between tasks without finishing them.

[01:04]

You feel a mild strain that sits in the

[01:06]

background of everything you do. And is

[01:09]

the signal that your mind is holding too

[01:11]

much. When the mind stays in this state,

[01:14]

new goals don't stick. You don't have

[01:16]

the motivation to chase them. New habits

[01:19]

fade away pretty quickly and you

[01:21]

basically try to force progress, but the

[01:24]

system is already at capacity. There's

[01:26]

literally no room for direction and

[01:28]

you're trying to move forward with a

[01:30]

mind that's running out of space. It's

[01:33]

almost like your computer is full,

[01:35]

completely full in terms of its hard

[01:37]

drive, and you try to cram more in

[01:39]

there. It's just not going to happen.

[01:41]

Um, and at the very least, your computer

[01:44]

is just going to be running pretty

[01:45]

slowly. So if you want to shift your

[01:47]

internal state, you need space. You

[01:50]

don't get clarity by adding more

[01:51]

thoughts or more pressure. You get it by

[01:53]

removing what's sitting in the way.

[01:55]

Space gives you the ability to hold one

[01:57]

clear instruction without your attention

[01:59]

really collapsing under a bunch of

[02:01]

different competing demands. So doing

[02:04]

nothing is the really the first step

[02:06]

towards creating that space. You need to

[02:09]

stop filling every moment and stop

[02:11]

reacting to every stimulus. And when

[02:14]

that noise drops, you can choose what to

[02:17]

focus on instead of being pulled around.

[02:19]

So your mind can get crowded without you

[02:21]

even really realizing it. And before

[02:23]

long, your inner world will start to

[02:26]

feel overfilled. And you will keep

[02:28]

adding new thoughts on top of old ones.

[02:30]

And unfinished ideas will start piling

[02:32]

up. And you're basically holding on to

[02:34]

so much that you don't even notice how

[02:36]

tightly you're actually gripping

[02:38]

everything. And after a while, that

[02:40]

noise will become so constant that it

[02:42]

starts to feel like this is your life,

[02:44]

like it's normal. You're just thinking

[02:46]

all the time, but none of these thoughts

[02:48]

actually go anywhere. They just stack up

[02:50]

layer after layer, and they don't move

[02:52]

you forward in any direction at all. And

[02:55]

once those layers get thick enough, even

[02:57]

simple task will start to feel harder

[03:00]

than they actually should. There's no

[03:02]

breathing room between your thoughts.

[03:04]

Nothing fresh can actually land because

[03:05]

there's simply no space for it. There's

[03:07]

no space for any new ideas or any any

[03:11]

way to basically move forward in your

[03:13]

life. And when your mind fills up like

[03:15]

this, thinking becomes less like a

[03:17]

smooth process and more like trying to

[03:20]

move around in a room where furniture

[03:21]

has been pushed too close together.

[03:23]

You're just going to basically keep

[03:25]

bumping into things all the time and

[03:27]

you'll lose track of what you came in

[03:28]

for. And even a simple idea will start

[03:31]

to feel like it requires a ton of effort

[03:33]

because it has to push through

[03:36]

everything you've you're already

[03:38]

carrying. And since you're juggling so

[03:40]

much internally, the quality of your

[03:42]

attention will also drop and the quality

[03:44]

of your focus and the signal in general

[03:46]

will get weaker. And that's when people

[03:48]

start losing interest in things that

[03:50]

they used to really care about or find

[03:52]

themselves stuck uh basically staring at

[03:54]

a screen without knowing what they were

[03:56]

supposed to be doing in the first place.

[03:58]

It's just so many thoughts at the same

[04:00]

time that you just freeze. And this is

[04:02]

also when a lot of people start to call

[04:05]

themselves burnt out. When in reality,

[04:07]

it's just that they're holding so much

[04:09]

in their m in their mind and in their

[04:12]

thoughts that of course they're going to

[04:14]

feel burned out. Of course, they're

[04:15]

going to feel like they can't move in

[04:17]

any direction. Of course, they're going

[04:18]

to feel like everything is too much. So,

[04:21]

the more the clutter builds, the more

[04:22]

your focus breaks apart into very

[04:25]

scattered pieces, and you start shifting

[04:26]

your attention before you finished

[04:28]

anything. You open tabs that stay open

[04:30]

for days, and you write notes that you

[04:32]

don't return to. You set some goals that

[04:35]

you never look at again. And each shift

[04:38]

takes a little bit of strength. And

[04:40]

actually, science has proven this.

[04:42]

Anytime you shift your attention from

[04:43]

one thing to the other, you lose a

[04:45]

little bit of energy. And and this is

[04:48]

oversimplified, but that's a topic for a

[04:51]

different day. And the cumulative effect

[04:54]

is that by the time you want to do

[04:55]

something that's actually meaningful,

[04:58]

you're already tired. And it's like

[05:00]

you're running small errands in your

[05:02]

brain and in your mind all day long. And

[05:05]

then you wonder why you can't really

[05:07]

focus or why you can't move forward. And

[05:10]

that mental clutter will create a

[05:12]

heaviness essentially that settles into

[05:15]

your thoughts and makes even the simple

[05:16]

tasks you need to get done feel like

[05:18]

these humongous projects. And you'll

[05:21]

notice this on days when everything

[05:22]

feels slightly slower or when even

[05:24]

choosing a next step feels like work.

[05:27]

Your mind essentially has to sift

[05:29]

through too much noise before it finds a

[05:32]

direction. And when it takes that long

[05:34]

to locate uh a clear point of focus, you

[05:36]

begin avoiding tasks altogether. As I

[05:38]

said, you start freezing. You start or

[05:41]

flying,

[05:43]

not flying, but um basically escaping

[05:46]

it. So, it's either fight, flight, or

[05:48]

freeze. And it's less that you're

[05:50]

unwilling and more that you feel weighed

[05:51]

down before you even begin. And so, when

[05:54]

you're so stressed out, when there's so

[05:57]

much going on in your mind, basically

[05:59]

the same kind of hormone uh shows up as

[06:02]

as when you're actually afraid of

[06:04]

something, as as if a tiger has shown up

[06:07]

in front of you. You're either going to

[06:08]

fight, fight or freeze. And [snorts]

[06:11]

you're doing this to yourself

[06:13]

essentially in today's world because

[06:14]

most of us are not not surrounded by any

[06:17]

dangerous animals that can actually, you

[06:20]

know, u attack us. Uh I don't want to

[06:23]

say the other word, but you get the gist

[06:25]

here. So this this constant load will

[06:28]

just drain you steadily and every open

[06:31]

loop will take a tiny piece of your

[06:33]

energy to hold in place. And one by one

[06:36]

they they don't necessarily seem like

[06:37]

much but then they accumulate and that

[06:40]

drain will start become uh becoming

[06:42]

obvious. And you'll feel it when you

[06:44]

wake up already tired or when you can't

[06:46]

really fully concentrate or focus on

[06:48]

anything. No matter how hard you try,

[06:50]

the body responds to mental clutter the

[06:53]

same way it responds to physical

[06:55]

clutter. It tightens up. Your thinking

[06:57]

basically narrows and you use more

[06:59]

effort for less work. And by the end of

[07:02]

the day, you're spent without even

[07:03]

having created anything of substance,

[07:05]

anything of value, without actually

[07:07]

doing anything. And the mind tends to

[07:09]

collect residue from these unresolved

[07:11]

things. A decision you haven't made or a

[07:13]

message you avoided answering, an errand

[07:15]

you've been putting off for a while.

[07:17]

Each one of those stays active somewhere

[07:19]

in the background, like an open tab in a

[07:22]

different window. Uh, and you may not be

[07:24]

thinking about them consciously, but

[07:25]

they still remain there and they drain

[07:28]

basically your RAM. uh in in the RAM of

[07:32]

your brain essentially. Uh and when

[07:34]

there are enough of these open loops,

[07:35]

they glue themselves together and they

[07:37]

create this general sense of unease. So

[07:40]

you don't always know what you're

[07:41]

carrying. You just you just basically

[07:43]

feel that you're carrying something. And

[07:46]

when your mind is cluttered, your

[07:48]

perception starts bending as well. You

[07:51]

might interpret basically neutral

[07:53]

situations through a lens of of

[07:55]

agitation and of [clears throat] anger.

[07:57]

You you you might assume that pre you

[08:00]

might assume that there's pressure where

[08:02]

none of it actually exists and simple

[08:04]

requests will start to feel demanding

[08:06]

and just ordinary days in general will

[08:08]

start to feel strangely full and and

[08:11]

generally you would feel like you can't

[08:14]

actually take on life and a clutter mind

[08:17]

doesn't really perceive reality clearly.

[08:19]

It absorbs everything as additional

[08:22]

weight as additional load to everything

[08:24]

that you're already carrying. And after

[08:26]

a while this will shape the way you

[08:28]

experience the world. The external

[08:30]

begins to basically feel heavier and

[08:32]

more dangerous that because the internal

[08:35]

is and so the noise becomes a kind of a

[08:39]

invisible fog and this is also what

[08:41]

people uh mean when they say that they

[08:44]

have this mental fog. You you can think

[08:46]

but the thinking isn't necessarily

[08:48]

sharp. Ideas arrive but they don't stay

[08:50]

long enough to develop and your

[08:52]

intuition basically gets quiet. you you

[08:55]

sense that there's something underneath

[08:57]

the the agitation, but you don't really

[08:59]

quite reach it. And it's similar to

[09:01]

hearing someone talking through a wall

[09:03]

in the other room. There's sound, but

[09:05]

the message doesn't really land. You

[09:06]

can't really hear it. And you end up

[09:08]

living in reaction to whatever is

[09:10]

loudest in your head instead of

[09:11]

responding to what matters. And clutter,

[09:14]

that clutter flattens the depth of your

[09:16]

thinking. You lose the sense of that

[09:19]

inner spaciousness that allows for

[09:21]

insight or creativity or even just

[09:23]

direction. and you begin to operate on

[09:25]

the surface of things because that's all

[09:27]

there's actually room for. And when

[09:29]

everything inside you feels compressed,

[09:30]

nothing can really expand. So a

[09:33]

cluttered mind thickens in a way that

[09:35]

makes reflection difficult as well.

[09:37]

You're thinking all day, but you're

[09:39]

rarely reaching a a real conclusion to

[09:41]

anything. You're planning constantly,

[09:43]

but you're rarely starting or or you

[09:46]

start, but you ne rarely finish. And

[09:49]

you're dreaming occasionally, but never

[09:50]

grounding the the dream. And there's no

[09:53]

room for the idea to open and unfold

[09:55]

because the mind keeps circling around

[09:57]

the noise instead of the signal. And

[10:00]

this creates a kind of stagnation where

[10:02]

nothing really moves forward even though

[10:04]

you feel like you're mentally active all

[10:06]

the time and maybe even physically. And

[10:08]

the most concerning uh part is how

[10:11]

easily the state drowns out the quiet

[10:13]

voice inside you that usually guides

[10:14]

your direction. And as the load

[10:16]

increases, your system just shifts

[10:18]

gradually into a low-level crisis mode.

[10:22]

Essentially, you respond to small things

[10:24]

with quick emotional spikes. You get

[10:26]

irritated faster. You lose patience

[10:27]

sooner. Your energy feels thin and

[10:30]

stretched. And there's a steady hum of

[10:33]

basically internal fatigue like a fan in

[10:36]

the background. And because this becomes

[10:38]

familiar, you begin treating it as your

[10:40]

baseline when it's actually just a sign

[10:42]

of cognitive excess. So your sense of

[10:44]

preference, desire, and inner alignment

[10:46]

actually starts to get quieter and you

[10:48]

stop hearing what you actually want. you

[10:50]

start defaulting to basically whatever

[10:52]

is easiest or whatever is yelling for

[10:54]

your attention in the current moment and

[10:56]

you have no time to actually think about

[10:58]

the future or plan for it. And when when

[11:01]

the inner signal fades, it becomes

[11:02]

incredibly difficult to shift into a new

[11:05]

phase of life because you've lost the

[11:07]

clarity you need to choose it. And this

[11:09]

is the moment where doing nothing begins

[11:11]

making sense. Right? Emptiness doesn't

[11:13]

require any effort. It doesn't demand

[11:15]

any focus or productivity. It removes

[11:18]

instead of adding. And when you create

[11:20]

even a little bit of that emptiness and

[11:22]

quietness, the pressure inside your mind

[11:24]

will start to soften and your thoughts

[11:26]

will start to settle and you see more

[11:28]

clearly what was clutter and what was

[11:31]

real. And once that space clears and

[11:34]

once that space actually appears, you

[11:37]

finally have room for a new reality to

[11:40]

really take shape. And this is what

[11:42]

we're going to be covering in the next

[11:43]

section is basically clearing out the

[11:45]

excess so that the mind can breathe

[11:47]

again. So let's talk about the purge

[11:49]

ritual. So clearing your mind really

[11:53]

starts in a pretty simple way. You

[11:55]

basically just sit with yourself in

[11:57]

silence for long enough to notice all

[12:00]

the thoughts and unfinished tasks or

[12:02]

unfinished open loops start boiling up.

[12:05]

And believe me, if you really turn off

[12:07]

all stimuli and just sit there, things

[12:10]

will start coming to the surface and you

[12:12]

will start feeling this urgency and

[12:15]

pressure. And that's what you're looking

[12:16]

for. You want to you want that urgency

[12:19]

and pressure to come up and why? Because

[12:22]

we're going to use it in just a bit. So,

[12:25]

most people don't stop long enough to

[12:27]

actually see that and to actually allow

[12:29]

themselves to feel that urgency and

[12:31]

pressure, which is why it builds up so

[12:33]

easily and why it's constantly building

[12:36]

up in the background. Once you catch it

[12:38]

though, once you actually pay attention

[12:39]

to it and stop yourself for a moment to

[12:41]

actually notice it, you can finally do

[12:43]

something about it. It's a slow removal

[12:46]

of pressure. You're lowering the volume

[12:48]

in your head so that the important

[12:50]

things can actually stand out again. And

[12:52]

I mean that in a very literal sense.

[12:54]

When you're clear, when you clear some

[12:56]

space in your head, when you quiet down

[12:58]

for a bit, your thinking becomes

[12:59]

clearer. Your attention doesn't scatter

[13:01]

as much. And the weight you're carrying

[13:03]

internally becomes far easier to manage.

[13:06]

But you need to stop for a moment to

[13:08]

actually notice that and stop adding

[13:10]

things. So just take a day. It couldn't

[13:13]

be a Sunday if you a lot of people say

[13:16]

that some of the things I say are not

[13:17]

applicable to people working a 9 to5

[13:20]

which obviously that that's a discussion

[13:22]

for another day but you can take any day

[13:25]

off and just take a moment and sit down

[13:28]

and be quiet for a moment and notice all

[13:31]

the pressure and all the urgency and all

[13:34]

the unfinished open loops and tasks and

[13:36]

open doors that you've left basically

[13:39]

from running around mentally but also

[13:42]

physically.

[13:43]

let them come up. And once you've done

[13:45]

that, the way you start clearing that

[13:48]

space, the way you actually move into

[13:51]

move forward and move in a direction is

[13:54]

writing things down. It's pretty simple.

[13:56]

And yes, it it feels almost too simple,

[13:59]

but it works every time. And I think

[14:02]

everybody could do this. So, you're

[14:04]

taking whatever's been looping in your

[14:06]

head and giving it a physical place to

[14:08]

sit. no structure, no filtering or

[14:11]

sensoring, just a clean unload,

[14:13]

basically a mental dump essentially. So,

[14:16]

a brain dump. Uh, so you'll see that if

[14:19]

you start doing this, your thoughts will

[14:21]

stop bouncing around once they land on

[14:23]

paper and once you actually have to

[14:25]

write them down as you're thinking them.

[14:28]

And it's surprising how much tension

[14:29]

will start to disappear when you're not

[14:31]

holding everything in your working

[14:33]

memory. You can see what you're dealing

[14:34]

with rather than carrying it by instinct

[14:36]

and memory. And when you write down

[14:39]

everything without trying to fix

[14:41]

anything, you get a clearer picture of

[14:43]

what's actually running in the

[14:45]

background. And some of it will look

[14:46]

trivial once you see it uh written out.

[14:49]

Some of it will remind you that you've

[14:50]

been dragging certain tasks for way too

[14:53]

long. Either way, the pressure will drop

[14:56]

and there's a moment where where you

[14:58]

will feel your mind not pressing forward

[15:01]

so hard. And once you start doing it,

[15:03]

you'll almost physically feel the mental

[15:05]

unload or mental load finally easing up,

[15:09]

right? And I personally try I personally

[15:11]

try to have as little as possible in my

[15:15]

memory. I I I don't want to remember

[15:17]

things. I don't want to have to remember

[15:20]

things. So everything is written down

[15:22]

either in notion or in my reminders app

[15:24]

on my phone, which actually also reminds

[15:26]

me to put everything from there in

[15:29]

notion. So, anytime I actually put down

[15:31]

something in the reminders app, I also

[15:34]

set a reminder to put those things in my

[15:36]

notion, especially if they're not some

[15:38]

smaller smaller tasks that I can get

[15:40]

done in 5 minutes. So

[15:43]

once you have a centralized place for

[15:45]

all of these thoughts and and all of

[15:47]

these random tasks in your head and you

[15:49]

actually start actively putting and

[15:51]

organizing everything in there, you'll

[15:53]

be free from overthinking and you'll be

[15:56]

free from the the overthinking that you

[15:58]

have subjected yourself to for so long.

[16:01]

And I'm not saying you should use notion

[16:03]

or anything like that for that matter.

[16:05]

It has worked great for me. But you can

[16:07]

use whatever basically works for you.

[16:09]

the system you use is not that that

[16:11]

important or or how you organize the

[16:14]

things as long as you organize them and

[16:16]

put them in somewhere that works for you

[16:19]

essentially. And what I'm saying is that

[16:21]

you can't really figure out ways to move

[16:23]

your life forward. You can't actually

[16:25]

really think about the future and plan

[16:27]

for the future if if if your brain is

[16:30]

constantly busy with remembering trivial

[16:32]

tasks and errands that you haven't done

[16:35]

from 3 weeks ago. It's just you're just

[16:38]

constantly in in catching up mode

[16:41]

essentially. You'll never be able to

[16:43]

really look to the future, plan for the

[16:45]

future, and actually take action for

[16:47]

your future self now because you're

[16:50]

constantly catching up with with tasks

[16:52]

and things you're doing from the past

[16:54]

because you're constantly trying to

[16:56]

remember everything. Now, after the

[16:59]

writing itself, silence works as a

[17:01]

second clearing tool. So, even a few

[17:04]

minutes of it can reset your mind. you

[17:06]

step away from the noise, away from your

[17:08]

screens, away from uh things that

[17:10]

basically ask for your attention. And

[17:13]

honestly, it will feel very odd at

[17:15]

first. You're most likely used to

[17:17]

constant input. And I'm not blaming you

[17:20]

for it. Most people

[17:22]

are in are addicted to constant input.

[17:25]

It's it's a way to escape as well. U we

[17:29]

have to remember that. So once you sit

[17:31]

in silence for a bit, um you'll notice

[17:34]

the internal pace slowing down and

[17:36]

you're not being pulled in every

[17:37]

direction because you're you're sitting

[17:39]

in in that quiet and you've unloaded

[17:42]

everything in your head and now you're

[17:44]

just sitting there and you're what

[17:46]

you're doing is basically you're giving

[17:48]

your brain the first real break it's had

[17:51]

all day or maybe all month for that

[17:54]

matter. And in that silence your

[17:56]

thoughts will start spreading out

[17:57]

instead of clumping together. And you

[18:00]

don't have to make them really do

[18:01]

anything. They settle on their own once

[18:03]

the constant stimulus stops. Once you

[18:07]

stop constantly putting things in your

[18:10]

brain, it's it's a very simple effect,

[18:12]

but it matters. You can think

[18:14]

straighter. You can see what's useful.

[18:16]

You can see what's just noise. You can

[18:18]

see what's not useful, what you need to

[18:19]

just leave behind.

[18:22]

And even better, you can see what you

[18:23]

don't actually have to finish. And it

[18:26]

feels less less like wrestling with your

[18:28]

mind and more like working with a system

[18:29]

that finally has some room to breathe.

[18:32]

And the next step is actually reducing

[18:34]

how much stimulation you take in each

[18:36]

day by default. So once you've unloaded

[18:39]

everything, once you've sat in silence,

[18:41]

once you've basically prioritized things

[18:43]

and organized things and seen what

[18:45]

actually, you know, what actually

[18:48]

matters and what doesn't and what can be

[18:49]

left behind, then the next step is

[18:51]

really reducing how much stimulation you

[18:54]

take in each day by default so that it

[18:56]

doesn't repeat again. So most people

[18:58]

don't realize how much they're actually

[18:59]

consuming until they try cutting back.

[19:02]

Every random scroll or errand adds

[19:05]

mental load. And when there are dozens

[19:08]

of those moments that are stacked

[19:09]

together, your mind ends up stretched

[19:11]

thin, right? So reducing stimulation is

[19:14]

incredibly effective because you're

[19:16]

essentially lowering the baseline noise

[19:18]

level so that your mind can actually

[19:20]

function without straining all the time.

[19:22]

So there's a few ways you can do that.

[19:24]

The first one is taking a short digital

[19:27]

fast u or a digital detox is how some

[19:31]

people call it. Um and it does more than

[19:34]

most people expect. And I'm not saying

[19:36]

you need a long break of a week or

[19:38]

something like that. Just a few hours

[19:40]

every day without any social media or or

[19:43]

constant notifications is really already

[19:45]

enough to create a noticeable change and

[19:48]

you're no longer reacting every few

[19:50]

minutes because of that because you're

[19:52]

taking a break and your attention will

[19:54]

will learn to or you will learn to keep

[19:56]

your attention in one place. You will

[19:58]

learn to not be checking your phone

[20:00]

every 5 minutes. And better yet, never

[20:02]

turn these notifications back on. you're

[20:04]

not going to really miss out on anything

[20:06]

important. And if somebody really wants

[20:08]

to talk to you, they can always call

[20:10]

you. Remember that at the end of the

[20:12]

day, we have phones for a reason. People

[20:14]

can just call you if something is is

[20:17]

really urgent. So after a brief fast,

[20:20]

you might notice that your mind feels

[20:22]

less crowded and your thoughts don't

[20:25]

push against each other the way they did

[20:26]

before. And there's enough space for

[20:28]

them to actually form without pressure,

[20:30]

without that urgency and that pressure

[20:32]

of of needing to do stuff. And another

[20:35]

way to do this is through a content

[20:37]

diet. Now I do this by default at this

[20:41]

point and it [clears throat] works by

[20:42]

basically limiting your input to a small

[20:44]

set of intentional sources. So you're

[20:47]

intentionally choosing specific people

[20:50]

uh and specific topics and specific

[20:52]

formats and everything else gets cut. So

[20:55]

this will create a controlled

[20:56]

information environment basically where

[20:58]

your mind only absorbs what supports

[21:01]

your current direction. And you can

[21:03]

start by listing three to five creators

[21:05]

or sources whose work consistently

[21:07]

aligns with where you're headed. Right?

[21:10]

And these should be people who help you

[21:12]

think more clearly, not people who

[21:13]

simply entertain or distract you. So of

[21:16]

course there is a moment and time um for

[21:20]

entertainment.

[21:22]

However, that should not be bumped

[21:25]

together with with with the content that

[21:27]

you're consuming to help you in moving

[21:31]

forward in your direction. So once you

[21:34]

have your list, commit to consuming only

[21:36]

from those sources for the next few

[21:37]

weeks or a week. And you can also try

[21:40]

setting clear boundaries around the type

[21:42]

of content itself. So if you're focusing

[21:44]

on building a skill, try to consume only

[21:47]

instructional or applied content. And if

[21:49]

you're working on on mindset, stick to

[21:51]

philosophy or reflective writing or

[21:54]

philosophy books. If you've spent the

[21:56]

last few years consuming random content,

[21:58]

your mind will really benefit from some

[22:00]

concentrated input that points in one

[22:03]

direction. And you'll also master

[22:05]

subjects way faster that way. If you for

[22:08]

example set this month as a philosophy

[22:11]

month and all you do is literally read

[22:13]

philosophy books and watch philosophy

[22:16]

related content whether that's videos or

[22:19]

or documentaries or whatever um you're

[22:22]

going to master the well you're not

[22:24]

necessarily going to master the subject

[22:25]

of philosophy itself but you're going to

[22:27]

be way further than most people are on

[22:29]

the subject and I'm not going to lie the

[22:32]

the restraint will most likely feel very

[22:34]

uncomfortable at first uh because you've

[22:37]

you're you're used to watching basically

[22:39]

anything that grabs your attention and

[22:41]

now you're not doing it anymore. Uh one

[22:43]

thing you could also try is just

[22:45]

literally watching just lectures uh for

[22:47]

a month straight and this will re

[22:50]

lectures and books only and this will

[22:53]

rewire your mindset. Now it's going to

[22:56]

feel uncomfortable because it's it's

[22:58]

basically like a nutritional diet but

[23:00]

for the content you actually consume not

[23:02]

for the food you consume. Uh so you'll

[23:05]

feel the pull to check other channels or

[23:07]

explore unrelated topics and that pull

[23:10]

is really part of the clutter you're

[23:12]

trying to remove. Each time you resist

[23:14]

it, you're training your attention to

[23:16]

stay narrow and strong and the

[23:19]

discomfort will fade quickly once your

[23:21]

mind actually adjusts to the reduced

[23:22]

input. Over a few weeks, you will not

[23:25]

want to necessarily

[23:27]

check these videos as much. So the next

[23:30]

step here is also a physical clearing

[23:33]

clear clearing or clearing your

[23:35]

environment around you or where you

[23:37]

spend the most time. Um now if if you're

[23:42]

going to an office I mean clear your

[23:44]

office clear your desk at least you can

[23:46]

always clear clean that up. If you uh

[23:49]

work from home then clean up the room

[23:52]

you're working from uh clean up

[23:54]

everything in fact in your home. Just

[23:56]

try to clear everything around you so

[23:58]

that everything is clean and tidy

[24:00]

because at the end of the day, a clean

[24:02]

desk, a cleaned out corner, uh a cleaned

[24:05]

out room, or even just an organized bag,

[24:09]

like literally organizing your gym bag,

[24:11]

for example, changes how your mind

[24:13]

operates. You're really reducing the

[24:16]

number of things that are asking for

[24:18]

your attention. And it doesn't fix

[24:20]

everything, but it definitely removes a

[24:22]

layer of friction that you didn't

[24:24]

realize was there, right? That you

[24:27]

didn't necessarily realize is crowding

[24:29]

your crowding your mind and crowding

[24:31]

your thoughts. And you get a cleaner

[24:33]

visual field and in a way a cleaner

[24:35]

internal one as well because the

[24:37]

lightness that follows feels very

[24:39]

steady. Once you clean out a room, once

[24:41]

you clear out your your your space in

[24:44]

general, your desk, whatever it is,

[24:46]

you'll feel this you'll feel this

[24:48]

lightness and it's it's a it's a steady

[24:50]

feeling essentially. Your attention

[24:52]

feels less pulled. You can look at one

[24:55]

thing without your mind drifting towards

[24:57]

everything else in the room. And this

[24:59]

kind of environmental clearing will help

[25:01]

you far more than most people assume.

[25:03]

Now, next up are your emotions. And

[25:08]

this is one one subject that I don't

[25:10]

think a lot of people talk about, but

[25:12]

emotional residue also needs clearing.

[25:16]

Now, a lot of people live with with in a

[25:20]

they have a life where they haven't

[25:21]

closed open loops with with people

[25:24]

around them, with the relationships they

[25:26]

have. They have these open loops uh

[25:29]

always in the background, things that

[25:31]

they didn't discuss, things that

[25:33]

conversations that they started and

[25:34]

never finished. It's the leftover

[25:36]

tension from things you haven't dealt

[25:38]

with. And it might be irritation from a

[25:41]

conversation or some kind of a worry you

[25:43]

didn't want to examine. All these small

[25:46]

emotional weights sit in the mind and

[25:48]

take up real space. This is why actually

[25:50]

a lot of people want closure after a

[25:53]

relationship ends. if if they didn't get

[25:55]

the closure is because that weight stays

[25:58]

in their in their mind and it obviously

[26:01]

prevents them from moving forward. Now

[26:04]

I'm not saying you have to analyze every

[26:06]

emotion deeply. In fact quite the

[26:08]

opposite I would say but you should give

[26:10]

them a brief moment of acknowledgement

[26:12]

uh so that they stop circling back right

[26:15]

this doesn't mean indulging the emotion

[26:17]

as I said you're simply noticing it

[26:19]

without really pushing it away without

[26:21]

suppressing it. It's just a short moment

[26:23]

of honesty and it looks pretty simple.

[26:26]

For example if you feel angry literally

[26:28]

mentally in your thoughts admit to

[26:31]

yourself that you feel angry. If you

[26:33]

feel sad, literally just admit to

[26:35]

yourself in your thoughts. You don't

[26:36]

have to share it with anyone, but just

[26:38]

admit to yourself that you feel sad. And

[26:41]

once you see it, or in other words, once

[26:43]

you notice the emotion, the emotion

[26:45]

usually loses its intensity because

[26:47]

you've given it some space, right? It it

[26:50]

you can imagine it almost as as

[26:53]

something that wants to be heard. The

[26:55]

moment you hear it, the moment you

[26:56]

acknowledge that it's trying to say

[26:58]

something to you, it feels heard and

[27:01]

that's it. it quiets down, right? It no

[27:04]

longer holds the same grip because

[27:05]

you're not resisting it anymore. You're

[27:07]

not trying to suppress it. You're not

[27:08]

trying to push it away. And the internal

[27:10]

resistance will start to drop. And

[27:12]

you'll get back a bit of clarity that

[27:14]

you did you you didn't even realize you

[27:17]

had lost because of it. And after that

[27:20]

purge, the change can be pretty

[27:22]

noticeable. Your thinking will get

[27:24]

clearer. Your attention is more stable.

[27:26]

the noise in your mind will drop far

[27:28]

enough for you to actually be able to be

[27:31]

aware and hear your thoughts again. And

[27:33]

this is the environment this is the

[27:36]

environment where new ideas can actually

[27:38]

take root and new patterns can actually

[27:40]

form and that emptiness is useful only

[27:43]

if you fill it with something

[27:44]

deliberate. So the next section will

[27:47]

focus on how to choose that single input

[27:50]

because it will become the anchor for

[27:53]

the reality you build next. Right? So

[27:56]

let's talk about the new input. Now once

[27:59]

you've cleared enough space, your mind

[28:01]

becomes much easier to work with and

[28:03]

there's less noise. There's fewer stray

[28:05]

thoughts pulling at you and a stronger

[28:07]

sense of internal quiet. And this is

[28:10]

where a single clear instruction makes a

[28:12]

real difference. So the mind likes

[28:15]

direction and when you give it one

[28:16]

simple command, it tends to shape

[28:18]

everything around that command without

[28:20]

much resistance. And the key here is

[28:22]

really choosing something specific

[28:24]

enough to guide you, but simple enough

[28:26]

that it doesn't create new clutter.

[28:28]

Right? A clean mind can hold one idea

[28:30]

with surprising strength, but if you

[28:32]

give it a complex kind of goal, then it

[28:35]

will most likely go back to

[28:38]

trying to escape and trying to basically

[28:40]

suppress it or or not focus on that

[28:43]

because it's just it's just more more

[28:45]

than it can actually handle in the

[28:46]

moment. So, you start by actually

[28:49]

choosing one thing or one thought that

[28:52]

actually matters and it doesn't need to

[28:54]

have layers of meaning. It doesn't need

[28:56]

to be complex. Just a simple directive

[28:58]

will keep your attention steady through

[28:59]

the day. And it can be a phrase, it can

[29:02]

be a goal for the day. It could be a

[29:04]

mantra, it could be just a maxim or a

[29:07]

principle you want to operate from. This

[29:10]

single idea becomes your anchor. Right?

[29:13]

And because you've reduced the internal

[29:14]

noise, the anchor sits in your awareness

[29:16]

without you having to force it there.

[29:19]

And to do this, you just ask yourself

[29:21]

what direction you want to lean towards

[29:22]

right now or today. And when the idea

[29:25]

feels clean and uncomplicated, that's a

[29:27]

good sign. If you feel some kind of

[29:29]

tension or confusion around it, it's

[29:31]

probably too complex. So, a simple

[29:33]

directive tends to hold best. Now, one

[29:35]

example is a domino goal. And a domino

[29:38]

goal is the one outcome that if you

[29:41]

achieve it right now or today, knocks

[29:43]

down several other goals at once or at

[29:45]

least makes the others a bit irrelevant.

[29:47]

Um, and so it's the priority that

[29:50]

essentially carries the most weight. It

[29:53]

gives your mind one clear target instead

[29:55]

of spreading your attention across many

[29:58]

small ones. So once you've chosen your

[30:00]

idea, you basically reinforce it by

[30:02]

bringing it back into focus at steady

[30:05]

intervals. And you return to the idea

[30:07]

whenever you get distracted. And you can

[30:09]

do this either casually by every time

[30:12]

you notice it by being slightly more

[30:14]

aware of the moment

[30:17]

because the the mind at the end of the

[30:18]

day learns through simple consistent

[30:20]

reminders. And because all that mental

[30:22]

clutter is is gone, those reminders will

[30:24]

now work a lot better. Or a

[30:27]

straightforward way to just take control

[30:28]

of this process and not leave it up to

[30:30]

your awareness is to just write down

[30:32]

your current domino goal three times a

[30:35]

day, morning, noon, and evening. Now, it

[30:38]

doesn't take long, but you're basically

[30:40]

training your mind to hold one

[30:41]

direction, and the writing will act as a

[30:44]

reset each time. So, in in the morning,

[30:48]

you write down your dominant goal. It

[30:49]

sets the tone for the day. At noon, you

[30:52]

write down your dominant goal. It

[30:53]

basically brings you back on track when

[30:55]

the day starts to starts to pull you in

[30:58]

different directions. And in the

[30:59]

evening, you close the loop.

[31:01]

Essentially, you just remind yourself of

[31:03]

the dominant goal you're working towards

[31:04]

right now. Um, now after a short period

[31:07]

of of repetition, the idea will begin

[31:10]

holding its own place. You won't have to

[31:12]

know necessarily hold it in your

[31:15]

thoughts all the time or write it down

[31:16]

all the time. It's still beneficial if

[31:18]

you do so, but you'll notice it showing

[31:20]

up in your thoughts without any effort

[31:21]

on your side, and you'll start making

[31:23]

choices that essentially line up with it

[31:25]

without having to think too hard. And

[31:27]

the idea will become a filter your mind

[31:29]

uses automatically. It's a pretty quiet

[31:32]

shift, yet it changes the way you move

[31:34]

through your day and through your weeks

[31:36]

or months. You're no longer reminding

[31:38]

yourself of the direction. It's just

[31:40]

constantly there. The mind has accepted

[31:42]

it as the baseline. This is what it's

[31:44]

working towards. And you can do this

[31:46]

with any goal. Once you achieve the

[31:47]

domino goal, obviously you can set

[31:49]

another one and and do the same thing.

[31:52]

And with enough repetition, the idea

[31:54]

will start to settle deeper. It stops

[31:56]

feeling like something external you're

[31:58]

trying to remember. It becomes part of

[32:00]

your internal language. And the mind

[32:02]

starts shaping your habits and attention

[32:04]

around it. Right? And this integration

[32:06]

happens when the idea is simple enough

[32:08]

and repeated enough. So you'll notice

[32:11]

you don't hesitate or procrastinate as

[32:13]

much and you'll get distracted less

[32:15]

often. And you'll act in ways that match

[32:17]

the idea or the goal before you even

[32:20]

think about it. And the mind prefers

[32:23]

consistency and frequency. It's it

[32:25]

doesn't always prefer intensity, right?

[32:28]

Because you could intensely repeat the

[32:30]

same thing for a week. But whenever and

[32:34]

and this is the same when we're talking

[32:35]

about the gym, you can't be super

[32:38]

consistent. you can't work out every day

[32:43]

uh or frequent and at the same time have

[32:48]

the highest intensity possible. So you

[32:50]

can't necessarily make uh do PRs every

[32:54]

day on the same muscle group, right? The

[32:57]

same the same way with your brain or

[32:59]

with your mind.

[33:01]

The mind prefers consistency and

[33:03]

frequency rather than repeating

[33:05]

something for a week as much as possible

[33:08]

and then forgetting about it. So when

[33:10]

you give it one direction and you remind

[33:11]

of it basically here and there over a

[33:15]

longer period of time, it will hold that

[33:17]

direction without much effort. And as

[33:19]

the idea stabilizes, you'll feel less

[33:21]

internal noise around it. You you check

[33:24]

it less. You you don't need to write it

[33:25]

down as much. You correct yourself less.

[33:28]

It becomes a fixed point in your

[33:29]

awareness and it becomes almost like

[33:31]

what breath is during meditation.

[33:34]

[clears throat] So a f it it becomes

[33:36]

basically a focus point to bring you

[33:38]

back to the here and now. Right? Just

[33:40]

like you focus on your breath when you

[33:42]

meditate.

[33:44]

Every time your thoughts start

[33:46]

scattering, you just refocus on your

[33:48]

breath.

[33:50]

And once the idea is embedded, you will

[33:52]

start to act on it consistently without

[33:54]

without necessarily putting in more

[33:56]

effort than usual. One action in line

[33:59]

with the idea is just enough to start

[34:01]

really creating a visible change. And a

[34:03]

clear mind is really a multiplier. It

[34:06]

amplifies the force of a simple action.

[34:09]

And each aligned step reinforces the

[34:11]

internal signal and makes the next one

[34:13]

easier. And each time you act in line

[34:16]

with the idea, you anchor it deeper. And

[34:18]

the mind connects the internal

[34:19]

instruction with the real action with

[34:22]

the external action. And it treats the

[34:24]

idea as a working part of your identity

[34:26]

rather than some kind of a loose

[34:28]

intention. And this will create a loop

[34:30]

where your thoughts and when and and

[34:33]

actions start to feed each other and

[34:36]

your intentions too. And that's also

[34:38]

when confidence increases because what

[34:40]

you think, what you intend to do, and

[34:42]

what you do are all in line. And with

[34:45]

that comes progress. The idea starts

[34:48]

shaping what you notice, what you

[34:50]

choose, and what you ignore. And you

[34:51]

catch opportunities that match it. And

[34:54]

you skip distractions that pull away

[34:56]

from it. And this is what focus is. Is

[34:59]

keeping an idea or a goal in your head

[35:02]

and reminding yourself of it and acting

[35:05]

on it for long enough. And that way,

[35:09]

your mind isn't overloaded. It's

[35:11]

focusing on the one thing and it has the

[35:14]

space and the clarity to follow one

[35:16]

direction and follow it well and

[35:18]

actually achieve

[35:21]

and you'll achieve way more this way. A

[35:23]

lot of people think that if they just

[35:24]

set 20 goals, they're going to achieve

[35:26]

them all and all of that and and they

[35:28]

can work on 20 goals at the same. It

[35:30]

doesn't work guys. Just focus on one

[35:33]

thing, complete it, go to the next

[35:36]

thing. Essentially, just monotasking.

[35:40]

Now once the idea holds, the vacuum you

[35:42]

created becomes a tool instead of a

[35:44]

temporary state. And you're working with

[35:47]

a mind that's now clear, it's steady,

[35:50]

and it's responsive. And you've given it

[35:52]

one clean signal, and you've reinforced

[35:54]

it through repetition. And now you've

[35:56]

grounded it through action afterwards.

[35:59]

So with that being said, let's go over

[36:01]

the review. We talked about the

[36:03]

overview. We went over the clutter

[36:05]

problem, the purge ritual, the new

[36:07]

input, the review, and finally your

[36:09]

action items for the day or the next few

[36:11]

days. First, set a 5minut timer today

[36:13]

and unload every loose thought and every

[36:16]

loose task onto paper, every open loop.

[36:19]

And don't organize it. Don't fix

[36:21]

anything at first. You're just reducing

[36:23]

that internal load so that your mind has

[36:25]

room to work again. And then identify a

[36:27]

domino goal. Pick the one outcome that

[36:30]

would make the rest of your

[36:31]

responsibilities lighter. and then write

[36:33]

it down three times today, morning,

[36:35]

noon, and evening. Or if it's too late,

[36:37]

if you're watching this in the evening,

[36:39]

then just start from tomorrow. Or start

[36:42]

now. Basically, just write the evening

[36:43]

one. And let the domino goal guide one

[36:46]

small action before the day ends.

[36:49]

Nothing large, just one step that aligns

[36:51]

with the direction you chose. And this

[36:54]

will anchor the new input, and it will

[36:55]

also begin to shift the environment

[36:57]

around you. With that being said, I hope

[36:59]

you found this video valuable. If you

[37:01]

did, let me know in the comments. Give

[37:03]

this video a like. Subscribe to the

[37:04]

channel for more. If you want to work

[37:06]

with me personally, especially if you're

[37:07]

an entrepreneur, creator, or

[37:09]

professional, then make sure to book a

[37:11]

call from the second link in the

[37:12]

description. And if you want this

[37:14]

training and the document of this

[37:16]

training, then make sure to join the

[37:19]

free community from the first link in

[37:20]

the description. Once again, thank you

[37:22]

for being here and I'm going to see you

[37:24]

in the next

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