Everyday Family Moments: Care, Challenges, and Growing Together

Hey, wait. Where are you coming from? >> I just came back from a walk. >> Yes, I know. But where were you walking?

>> At the nearby park. Why? What happened? >> Why are you lying? >> What lie am I telling?

>> That you were walking. >> But that's true. I was walking >> again. You're lying.

No, I'm not lying. >> Oh, [sighs] no. Did you meet Lucas? >> Yes, I met him. But why?

>> Did you eat spicy food again today? >> Yes, but how do you know? >> I told you not to eat spicy food.

>> Oh my god, I'm so sorry. I forgot. >> You forget everything. You don't take care of your health.

>> I'm sorry. I won't repeat it again. >> Don't say sorry. Go freshen up and drink some juice.

>> Okay. Okay. Calm down, please. >> Now, don't show so much love. >> Are you angry with me?

>> No. Why would I be angry with you? >> It looks like you're angry. I told you I'm not angry.

>> Then can you tell me how you knew I ate spicy food? >> Someone called me.

>> Who called you? Please tell me. Who called you? Please tell me. >> I don't think you really want to know.

>> Why? Now I'm curious. >> Because you might feel embarrassed. >> Just tell me.

Okay. Lucas called me. >> What? He called you? >> Yes, he did.

>> Why would he call you? >> He was worried about you. >> Worried about what?

>> He said you were coughing after eating. >> Oh, no. He told you that. >> Yes. Everything.

That's so embarrassing. >> He cares about your health. >> I know, but still

>> and I also care. >> I can see that. >> Then why don't you listen to me?

>> Because spicy food is my weakness. >> Your weakness will make you sick. >> I'll control it from tomorrow.

You said that last week too. >> This time I promise. >> H promises are easy.

>> Okay, punish me then. >> Punish you? >> Yes. No spicy food for one month.

>> One month? That's impossible. >> See, you already failed. >> All right, two weeks.

better. >> And you'll remind me daily. >> Of course,

>> but gently. Not like a teacher. >> Fine, I'll be sweet. >> You're already sweet. Sometimes.

>> Sometimes. >> Only when you behave. >> So, I need training now.

>> Yes. Health training. All right, coach. What's next? >> First, drink warm water.

>> Done. >> Second, no street food. >> That hurts.

>> Good. It should. >> You're enjoying this too much. >> Maybe a little,

>> but thank you for caring >> always. Lily, I came back from the store.

>> Mom, I was waiting for you. >> Really? Did you miss me? >> Yes, and I was also waiting for snacks.

>> I see your real reason. >> What did you bring? >> First, help me keep the bags on the

table. >> Okay. They look heavy. Yes. Today the store was very crowded.

>> Did you stand in a long line? >> Very long. I almost got tired. >> Poor mom. Sit down. I will help you.

>> Thank you, my helper. >> Wow, apples. >> Fresh apples. Wash them before eating.

>> Of course. What else? >> Milk, bread, and eggs. >> Good. I like omelette tomorrow.

>> Sure. I will make it for breakfast. >> And this box. >> That is cereal.

>> Yay. My favorite. >> Wait, check the vegetables, too. >> Carrots, tomatoes, potatoes. So many.

We need healthy food, not only snacks. >> I know, but snacks are important. >> Not that important.

>> Mom, where is my chocolate? >> Um, >> mom.

>> I forgot it. >> What? You forgot again? >> I am sorry, Lily.

I was dreaming about it. >> Don't be sad. I bought something else. >> Really? What is it?

>> Close your eyes first. >> Okay. Closed. >> Open them now.

>> Cookies. >> Chocolate cookies. >> Even better.

See, mom never disappoints. >> I forgive you. >> Good. But only one now.

>> Just one? >> Yes. Dinner is soon. >> Fine. I will eat slowly.

>> After that, show me your homework. >> I finished it already. >> Good girl.

>> You always say that. because you always do well. >> Can we cook together today?

>> Sure, you can wash vegetables. >> I like helping you. >> And I like your company,

>> Mom. Today was boring without you. >> I missed you, too. >> Next time, take me with you to the

store. >> Only if you don't ask for 10 chocolates. I will ask for nine.

>> Nice try. >> Okay, maybe just one. >> Deal. Now, wash your hands.

>> Yes, chef. Mom. >> Tom, why are you sitting here? You had an interview today.

>> Don't ask. It was a disaster. >> What happened? And did you reach late? >> I didn't reach at all.

>> What? Why? >> I took the wrong bus >> again. You always do this.

>> The route numbers looked the same. >> So, where did you go? >> The bus went to the airport road.

>> Your interview is in the city center. I realized after 40 minutes, >> why didn't you ask the driver?

>> I was busy reading interview questions. >> Oh no. >> Then my phone battery died.

>> Of course it did. >> And I didn't remember the office address.

>> Please tell me you informed them. I tried but I couldn't call anyone. >> So, you just came back

>> after 2 hours of confusion. Yes. >> They must think you're irresponsible. >> I know. I feel terrible.

>> This was your dream job. >> Don't remind me. >> Did they message you?

>> Yes, they emailed asking if I was coming. And what did you reply?

>> I told the truth. >> Good. Honesty helps. >> But they haven't replied yet.

>> Maybe they'll reschedu. >> I hope so. >> Next time, what will you do first?

>> Charge my phone. >> Second, >> check the bus number carefully.

Third, >> save the address offline. >> Finally learning.

>> Laugh if you want. >> I'm not laughing. I'm worried. >> Thanks for not scolding me today.

>> I will scold you after you get the job. >> Deal. >> Come on, let's go home.

>> Wheat message. What does it say? >> They want to reschedu tomorrow.

>> See, good things happen. >> This time I'm leaving 3 hours early. >> I'm coming with you.

>> Probably a good idea. >> Lily, why are you so quiet today? >> Mom, I lost something.

Oh no. What did you lose? >> My school water bottle. >> The blue one with stickers.

>> Yes, my favorite one. >> Where did you see it last? >> In the classroom after lunch.

>> Did you check your school bag? >> I checked three times. Maybe you left it on the desk.

>> I think so. I feel bad. >> Don't worry, it happens. >> My friend told me to check the

playground, too. >> Good idea. Did you go there? >> No, the bell rang quickly.

>> Tomorrow you can ask your teacher. >> What if someone takes it? Then we will find another one.

>> But that one was special >> because I bought it for your birthday. >> Yes. And I decorated it myself.

>> I understand why you are sad. >> I should be more careful. >> We learn from mistakes.

>> Will you come with me tomorrow morning? >> Of course. We can go early. >> Thank you, Mom.

>> Now, tell me, how was school today? >> Math was easy. >> And English class?

>> We read a story about animals. >> Sounds fun. >> But I couldn't stop thinking about my

bottle. >> That's okay. Your mind was busy. My teacher said, "Focus, Lily.

>> She knows you well." >> I felt embarrassed. >> Everyone forgets things sometimes.

>> Even you? >> I once forgot my purse at a shop. >> Really?

>> Yes. I had to run back quickly. >> Did you get it? >> Luckily, yes.

Then maybe I will get mine too. >> I believe so. >> If I find it, I will clean it every day.

>> That's a good promise. >> And I will write my name bigger. >> Smart idea.

>> Mom, can I drink water now? >> Here, use my bottle today. >> Thanks. It feels big.

Because you are still small. >> Not small. I'm growing. >> Yes, my big girl.

>> Tomorrow will be a lucky day. >> Yes, we will search together. >> I feel better now.

>> Good. Now go wash your hands. >> Okay, Mom. Coming. Tom, don't panic.

>> I'm already panicking. My wallet is gone. >> Check your pockets again.

>> I checked 10 times. >> Maybe you dropped it near the entrance >> or at the vegetable section or the

billing counter. Oh no. >> Relax. Breathe first. How can I relax? My cards were inside.

>> When did you last use it? >> When I paid for the juice. >> Cash or card?

>> Card. >> Then the cashier might have seen it. >> Let's go ask quickly.

>> Excuse me. Did you see a brown wallet here? >> Yes, please. It's mine.

>> He's checking the drawer. I hope someone honest found it. >> Don't think negative.

>> I kept my ID inside, too. >> That's why I tell you to be careful. >> Not now, Lily. Please.

>> Sorry. I'm just worried. >> I know. >> What if it's not here?

>> Then I block all my cards. >> Good idea. My hands are shaking.

>> Here, drink some water. >> Thanks. >> The cashier's coming back.

>> Tell me he found it. >> He's smiling. That's a good sign. >> Please be mine.

>> Is it yours? >> Yes, that's my wallet. >> Thank goodness.

Everything is inside. >> You're lucky today. >> No, I'm lucky because you're with me

>> now. Hold it properly. >> I will never keep it in a loose pocket again.

>> Lesson learned. >> Big lesson learned. >> Okay, now let's finish shopping.

>> And I'm buying you ice cream for saving my life. What? You're moving away?

>> I got a job offer this morning. >> And you're telling me now? >> I was scared to tell you.

>> How far is it? >> Another city about 6 hours away. >> That's really far.

>> I know. >> When were you planning to go? Next month if I accept it.

>> If you accept. So you haven't decided? >> Not yet. >> Is the job good?

>> Very good salary and position. >> Then why do you look unhappy? >> Because everything important to me is

here. >> Including me. Especially you.

>> Then don't go. >> It's not that simple. >> Your dream was to grow in your career.

>> Yes, but I didn't imagine leaving you. >> We can manage long distance. >> That's hard.

>> Hard doesn't mean impossible. >> I'm afraid things will change. Only if we let them change.

>> What if you get busy and forget me? >> Impossible. >> You say that now.

>> Hey, look at me. >> I'm looking. >> I'm not that easy to lose.

>> I hope so. >> How often can you visit? >> Maybe twice a month.

and video calls daily. >> Daily? >> Yes. No excuses.

>> Okay, boss. >> I'm serious. >> I know.

>> Are you excited at least a little? >> About the job? Yes. >> Then you should go.

>> Really? I won't stop your future. >> You're stronger than me.

>> No. Test supportive. >> I don't deserve you. >> Don't start drama.

>> I mean it. >> Promise me one thing. >> Anything.

>> Don't slowly disappear from my life. >> Never. And don't forget this station.

>> Why? >> This is where you told me first about your dreams.

>> And today I'm chasing them. >> I'm proud of you. >> I needed to hear that.

>> So when do you give the answer? >> Tomorrow morning. >> Then call me first.

first and always. >> Why are you awake so early today? >> Mom, I have an important question.

>> That sounds serious. >> Can we get a pet? >> A pet? That is a big responsibility.

>> I will take care of it. I promise. >> What kind of pet do you want? >> A small puppy.

Puppies need lots of time. >> I have lots of time after school >> and homework.

>> I will finish homework first. >> Pets also make a mess. >> I will clean it every day.

>> Even in the morning? >> Yes, even in the morning. >> What about feeding it? I will feed it

before breakfast >> and walking it. >> I can walk it in the evening.

>> Rain or sunshine. >> Rain or sunshine. >> You are determined.

>> I really want a friend to play with. >> You already have friends. >> But a pet stays at home.

>> True. Why a puppy? Because puppies are cute and happy. >> They also bark loudly.

>> I like barking. >> Our neighbors may not. >> I will train it to be quiet.

>> Training takes patience. >> You can teach me. >> Clever answer.

>> Please, Mom. Just one chance. Maybe we should try something easier first.

>> Like what? >> A fish. >> A fish cannot play fetch.

>> But it is easier to care for. >> H maybe a hamster. >> That sounds better.

>> Really? >> Yes. If you care for it well. >> I will. I will.

You must clean its cage weekly. >> I can do that. >> And remember feeding time daily.

>> I will set an alarm. >> Good thinking. >> When can we get it?

>> This weekend we can visit a pet shop. >> Yay. Thank you, Mom. >> But this is a test.

>> I will pass the test. Then maybe one day a puppy. >> Best day ever.

>> Now brush your teeth first. >> Even before the pet shop. >> Especially before the pet shop.

>> Okay, Mom. Coming. >> Why are your hands so cold? >> I'm really nervous.

>> It's just a test report. Easy for you to say. >> You've been healthy all year,

>> except for that chest pain last week. >> The doctor said it might be stress. >> What if it's something serious?

>> Don't imagine the worst. >> My mind won't stop thinking. >> Try breathing slowly.

I already tried that five times. >> Do you want water? >> No, I'll just drop it.

>> You're shaking. >> I hate hospitals. >> Everyone does.

>> The smell makes me panic. >> Look at me not around. Okay, that helps a little.

>> Remember your last checkup? >> Yeah, everything was normal. >> This will be the same.

>> I hope so. >> What scares you the most? >> Bad news.

>> And if it comes, >> I don't know how I'll react. You won't face it alone.

>> Thanks. That means a lot. >> I'm right here. >> Don't leave even for a minute.

>> I promise. >> My heart is beating so fast. >> That's anxiety.

>> Feels like drums in my chest. >> Want to talk about something else? Please distract me.

>> Tell me your weekend plan. >> Sleep for two days. >> That's not a plan.

>> Then movie and pizza. >> Good. Positive thinking. >> If the report is tine, I'm celebrating.

>> And if not, >> then I'll still be brave. That's my Tom.

>> I'm trying. >> The nurse is coming >> already.

>> Relax. >> I'm not ready. >> You are.

>> Stay close. >> Always. >> She called my name.

>> Go. I'll wait here. >> Don't disappear. I won't move.

>> Okay, here I go. >> Why are you hiding behind me, Lily? >> Mom, the thunder is very loud.

>> It's just a storm outside. >> I don't like storms. >> Come sit next to me.

>> The window is shaking. The wind is strong today. >> Did you hear that boom?

>> Yes, but we are safe inside. >> I feel scared. >> Hold my hand.

>> Your hand is warm. >> That's because I am brave. >> I want to be brave, too.

>> You already are. >> Really? Yes, you are talking about your fear.

>> The lights blinked. >> Power sometimes goes off in storms. >> What if it becomes dark?

>> I have candles and a flashlight. >> Can we turn one on? >> Sure. Here is the flashlight.

>> Oh, that feels better. >> Listen carefully. The rain sounds nice. >> Like drums on the roof.

>> Exactly. >> Another thunder. >> Count after the lightning.

>> 1 2 3. >> See, it is moving far away. >> So the storm is leaving

>> slowly. Yes. Mom, tell me a story. >> Once there was a little girl afraid of

thunder >> like me. >> Yes. But she became strong.

>> How? >> She learned thunder is only clouds talking.

>> Clouds are noisy. >> Very noisy friends. That sounds funny.

>> Are you still scared? >> A little, but less. >> Good progress.

>> Can I hug you? >> Always. >> The rain is softer now.

>> The storm is almost over. >> I feel sleepy. >> Let's make warm milk

>> and sit together. Yes, near the window. >> I like rainy evenings now.

>> See, you are brave. >> Thanks to you, Mom. >> Anytime, my little star.

>> Good night in advance. >> Not yet, but soon.