Introduction to Making Friends in a New City
Moving to a new city can be both exciting and lonely. Starting conversations with fellow newcomers who understand your experience can ease the transition.
Initiating Conversations
- Approach others who are also new to the city.
- Exchange basic information such as arrival time and prior living situations.
- Share feelings about the adjustment period to build empathy. For more on this, see How to Choose and Make Friends as an Introvert: Proven Strategies.
Overcoming Loneliness
- Acknowledge that making friends takes time and patience.
- Engage in shared activities like lunch or coffee breaks with colleagues or classmates to create natural bonding opportunities.
Exploring the City Together
Traveling and exploring the new environment with others can make the experience more enjoyable.
Planning City Exploration
- Visit notable spots such as the old town, river walk, and central market.
- Arrange meet-ups for activities like coffee after class or weekend sightseeing. Learn more about city navigation in Exploring New York City Transportation: Subway, Bus, and Taxi Guide.
Benefits of Group Activities
- Reduces the feeling of being overwhelmed by a large city.
- Builds relationships through shared discoveries and experiences.
Making Social Connections in Daily Life
Opportunities for new friendships occur during everyday interactions.
Examples
- Helping with heavy bags or borrowing a phone can spark conversations.
- Attending parties or workplace events provides chances to meet people. For tips on connecting in social events, see Mastering English Confidence: From Feeling Invisible to Connecting at Parties.
Tips
- Show kindness and offer help when possible.
- Be open to invitations and reciprocate social gestures.
Leveraging Common Interests
Shared interests such as markets, food, and hobbies facilitate connections.
Recommendations
- Attend farmers markets and community events.
- Join clubs or groups related to hobbies like art or sports.
Building a Support Network
- Exchange contact information to stay connected and plan activities.
- Maintain regular communication to deepen friendships.
Conclusion
Adjusting to a new city is smoother with proactive social engagement and shared exploration. By initiating contact, participating in community activities, and embracing daily opportunities, newcomers can build meaningful friendships and feel at home more quickly. For inspiring real-life stories on connecting with others, check out Everyday Connections: Stories of Kindness, Reunion, and New Beginnings.
Making new friends in a new city. Excuse me, are you new here, too? Yes, I arrived last month. And you? I arrived 2
weeks ago. Oh, we are both new then. Yes, do you know many people here? Not many, just
two or three people. Me too. It is a little lonely. Yes, making friends takes time. I agree. It is not easy. Where did
you live before? In a small town, very quiet. And now you're in a big city? Yes, it is very different. Different
how? Everything is faster here. Yes, people walk fast, talk fast. Ha, yes, I feel slow sometimes.
I felt the same at first. Does it get easier? Yes, after a few weeks. That is good to know. What do you do here? I
work at a marketing company. Oh, is it a good company? Yes, the people are friendly. That helps a lot. Yes, I eat
lunch with my colleagues. Lunch is a good time to connect. Exactly. What about you? I study at the university.
Oh, what do you study? Engineering. That is impressive. Ha, it is very difficult. Are there other students from other
cities? Yes, many. We are all new together. That must help. Yes, we understand each
other. Do you do things together? Sometimes, coffee after class. That sounds nice. You should join us
sometime. Really? I would like that. We go on Fridays after 5:00. Friday after 5:00. I am free then. Good, come this
Friday then. Are you sure? I don't want to intrude. Of course not, the more the better. Thank you, that is very kind.
New city is easier with new friends. I completely agree. Let me give you my number. Yes, and I will give you mine.
Good, see you Friday then. Yes, I look forward to it. Me too. Have a good day. You too. Goodbye. Goodbye, see you
Friday. Exploring a new city together. I don't know where to start.
What do you mean? This city is so big. >> [laughter]
>> Yes, it is very big. Have you explored much? A little. I went to the old town.
The old town? Is it nice? Very beautiful, old buildings and small streets. That sounds wonderful.
Have you seen the river yet? No, not yet. The river is very beautiful in the
morning. I should go. We can go together if you want.
Really? That would be great. I know a nice path along the water. How far is it?
About 15 minutes on foot. That is very close. Yes, and there are cafes along the way.
Perfect, I need a morning coffee. Me too, always. What else is there to see?
The central market is very famous. A market? I love markets. It opens at 7:00 in the morning.
7:00? That is early. Yes, but it is worth it. What do they sell?
Fresh food, flowers, cheese, bread. That sounds amazing. And the prices are very good. Good
prices and good food. Yes, a perfect combination. Is there a museum?
Yes, the history museum is excellent. I like history very much. Then you will love it.
How much is the entrance? I think $12. That is not expensive.
No, and it takes 2 hours inside. 2 hours for $12? Very good. It is one of my favorites so far.
Let's go together one day. Yes, Saturday afternoon? Saturday afternoon is perfect. Good.
River walk tomorrow, museum on Saturday. Ha, we have a full plan. New cities are more fun with company.
I completely agree. I'm glad we met today. Me too, this was a happy coincidence.
Yes, see you tomorrow morning then. Yes, 8:00 by the bridge. 8:00, I will be there.
Perfect, goodbye for now. Goodbye, see you tomorrow. Staying in hotels while traveling.
Excuse me, is this your first time at this hotel? No, I stay here often for work.
Oh, then you know it well. Yes, it is a good hotel. I just checked in. It is very clean.
Yes, the rooms are always clean here. And the bed is very comfortable. Yes, I sleep well here. That is important when
you travel. Very important, a bad bed ruins a trip. Ha, that is true. Are you here for work or leisure?
Leisure, a short holiday. How long are you staying? Three nights.
Three nights is a nice short trip. Yes, I needed a break. I understand, we all do sometimes.
How often do you travel for work? About once a month. Once a month? That is a lot. Yes, I am
used to hotels now. Does it bother you? A little, I miss my home.
Of course, home is always the best. Yes, but the work is interesting. That helps. Have you seen the breakfast
here? Not yet, is it good? Excellent, many choices.
I love a big hotel breakfast. Ha, everyone does. What time does it start? 7:00.
7:00, good. I wake up early. Me too, when I travel. I want to explore the city tomorrow.
Good plan, the old town is beautiful. Yes, I want to see it. And the river path is very nice.
A river path? That sounds perfect. About 30 minutes by foot. I like walking, that is perfect. Take
the east exit from the hotel. East exit, I will remember that. Turn left and walk straight.
Straight to the river. Yes, you will see it. Thank you, you are very helpful. Of course, enjoy your
holiday. Thank you, I already love this city. It is a wonderful place. Have a good
evening. You too, enjoy the hotel. Goodbye. Goodbye, thank you again.
Planning to explore a city together. What are your plans for tomorrow? I have no plans yet, and you?
I want to explore the city. That sounds like a good idea. Would you like to come? Yes, I would love that. Perfect,
two people is more fun. I agree. What time? Morning is the best time. Yes, before it gets too hot. Shall
we meet at 9:00? 9:00, perfect. We can start at the market square.
Good idea, I want to see the market. There is a famous one near the center. Is it a food market? Yes, food, flowers,
and crafts. Oh, I love crafts. Me too, we can look for small gifts. Good idea, my sister loves local crafts. Then this
market is perfect for her. Yes, what else is on the plan? The old cathedral in the afternoon. A cathedral?
Is it very old? 500 years, I think. That is incredible. Yes, and it is free to enter.
Free? Even better. Many beautiful things are free here. I like this city already.
Yes, me too. What about lunch? There is a small restaurant near the
square. What kind of food? Local dishes, very affordable.
How much for a meal? About 12 to 15 dollars. That is very reasonable.
Yes, and the portions are large. I am always hungry when I explore. Me, too. Walking makes you hungry.
Exactly. We can finish at the river park. A river park?
Yes, beautiful in the late afternoon. Perfect, quiet and relaxing. Yes, a good end to a busy day.
I am excited already. Me, too. Tomorrow will be wonderful. What shall we bring?
Comfortable shoes, a small bag. And some water. Yes, always water.
Okay, 9:00 at the hotel entrance? Yes, see you there. Goodbye. Goodbye, I can't wait.
Talking about daily routine. What time do you usually wake up? I wake up at 6:00 every morning.
6:00? That is very early. Yes, but I like the morning.
What do you do first? I drink water, then I make coffee. Water first, that is healthy.
Yes, it wakes up the body. I usually drink coffee immediately. Huh, most people do.
Do you exercise in the morning? Yes, I walk for 20 minutes. Every day?
Monday to Friday, not weekends. Weekends you rest? Yes, on weekends I sleep a little later.
What time on weekends? About 8:00. 8:00? That is still early for a weekend.
Huh, I can't sleep longer. I sleep until 10:00 on Sundays. 10:00? That is very late.
I know, but I love Sunday mornings. What do you do then? I make a big breakfast.
Oh, what do you make? Eggs, toast, fruit, and orange juice. That sounds wonderful.
It is my favorite meal of the week. A relaxed Sunday breakfast, I like that. What do you eat on weekdays?
Something quick, toast and fruit. No time to cook? Not really, I leave at 7:30.
That is very early to leave. Yes, my office is 30 minutes away. By bus or by car?
By bus, I don't have a car. The bus is good here. Yes, every 10 minutes.
Do you work late? Sometimes, usually until 6:00. And then what? I cook dinner, then read
or watch TV. What do you like to cook? Simple things, soup and salad mostly.
Quick and healthy. Yes, I don't have energy after work. I understand that completely.
What time do you go to bed? About 11:00, sometimes midnight. That is late.
I know, I'm a night person. Huh, I go to bed at 10:00. 10:00? That is early.
I need 8 hours of sleep. I only need 6. Everyone is different.
Yes, but our routines work for us. That is all that matters. Exactly. Have a good day.
You, too. Goodbye. Goodbye. Asking for help with a bag.
Excuse me, ma'am. Yes, what is it? Could you help me, please? Of course, what do you need?
I have two very heavy bags. Yes, they look very heavy. I cannot carry both at once.
I understand. Where are you going? To the bus stop, just over there. The one near the corner?
Yes, that one. That is not far, I can help. Thank you very much. Which bag shall I take?
The blue one, please. It is lighter. Okay, I have it. Please be careful, there are eggs
inside. Eggs? I will hold it gently. Thank you, I just came from the market.
Ah, that explains the full bags. Yes, I bought too much today. Huh, that always happens at the market.
Yes, everything looks so good. What did you buy? Vegetables, fruit, bread, and eggs.
A full week of food. Haha, yes, maybe 2 weeks. Do you come to the market often? Every
Saturday morning. Me, too. I love Saturday markets. Yes, fresh and affordable.
Exactly, much better than the supermarket. I agree completely.
Here we are, the bus stop. Thank you so much. My pleasure, no problem at all.
I really could not manage both bags. I could see that. You were very kind to help. It is the right thing to do.
Not everyone would stop to help. That is sad, but true. I appreciated very much.
Of course, we must help each other. Yes, I will remember that. Which bus do you take?
Bus number four. It comes in about 5 minutes. How do you know?
I checked the screen over there. Oh, I didn't notice that. Huh, you were busy with your bags. Haha,
yes, too busy. Well, your bus is almost here. Yes, thank you again.
Have a safe trip home. Thank you, have a wonderful Saturday. You, too. Goodbye. Goodbye.
Borrowing a phone for an emergency call. Excuse me, sir. I am very sorry to bother you.
No problem, what is it? I have a small emergency. Oh, what happened?
My phone has no battery. Ah, it died completely? Yes, just now, it shut off.
That is very bad timing. Yes, I need to call my husband. Is everything okay?
I hope so, he is waiting for me. And he doesn't know you are late? Exactly, he must be worried.
Of course, please use my phone. Thank you so much, just one short call. Take your time.
Do you know the time, please? It is 4:15. I am 30 minutes late.
Here, please call. Thank you, I will be quick. No rush.
Hello, My phone died. I am near the post office. I will be there in 20 minutes.
Yes, sorry. Goodbye. Is everything okay?
Yes, he was worried, but he is fine now. Good, I'm glad. Thank you, you helped me very much.
It was nothing, really. No, it was not nothing, I was very stressed.
I understand, a dead phone is very stressful. Yes, we depend on them too much.
Huh, that is true. I should carry a small charger.
Yes, I always carry one. That is a good habit. Very useful in situations like this.
I will buy one tomorrow. They are not expensive, about 10 dollars.
10 dollars? That is very reasonable. Yes, a small price for peace of mind. Huh, that is very true.
Are you far from where you need to go? About 20 minutes on foot. That is not too far.
No, I will walk quickly. Good, you will be there soon. Thank you again. You were very kind.
My pleasure. Take care. You too. Goodbye. Goodbye. Safe walk.
Borrowing money from a friend. Can I talk to you for a moment? Of course. What is it?
I need to ask a favor. Sure, what do you need? I need to borrow some money.
Of course. How much? $50 until Friday. $50? What happened? I forgot my wallet at
home today. Oh no, really? Yes, I left in a hurry this morning.
And you need money for today. Yes, I need to buy lunch. That's right, the cafeteria is cash only today.
Yes, the card machine is broken. I saw the sign. So, I have no way to pay.
I understand. I have $50. Really? Are you sure? Yes, I have enough for both of us.
I will pay you back Friday. I promise. I know you will. Don't worry. Thank you. I hate asking for money.
Please don't feel bad. It happens. I am always so organized. Today was different. We all have those mornings.
I woke up late. Everything was rushed. I know that feeling well. I left my keys on the table, too.
Oh, how did you lock the door? My neighbor has a spare key. That was lucky.
Yes, very lucky. Here are the $50. Thank you so much. What will you have
for lunch? The soup and a sandwich. That is about $8. Yes, so I will give you back 42.
Just give me 50 on Friday. Keep the rest. No, I will give you the exact amount back.
You are very honest. I try to be. Okay, 50 on Friday. 50 on Friday. I promise.
I trust you completely. Thank you. You are a good friend. That is what friends are for. I won't
forget this. I know you won't. Go eat your lunch. Yes, I am very hungry. Thank you.
Enjoy. See you later. See you. Goodbye. Goodbye. Borrowing someone's phone for a call.
Excuse me, ma'am. Yes? I'm very sorry to disturb you.
Not at all. What do you need? May I borrow your phone? Just for a minute.
Of course. Is everything okay? Yes, I just need to call a taxi. A taxi? Of course.
My phone has no signal here. Ah, yes. This area is a little weak. I didn't know that.
It happens near the tunnel. I see. My phone shows no bars. Mine works here. Please use it.
Thank you. I will be very quick. Take your time. No hurry. Do you know a good taxi number here?
Yes, City Taxi. Their number is on that sign. Oh, I see it. Thank you.
Here, please dial. Hello? Yes, I need a taxi, please. I am on
Bridge Street near the tunnel entrance. How long? Okay, thank you.
How long is the wait? About 10 minutes. That is not long.
No, very good. Are you going far? To the train station.
The main station? Yes, I have a train at 5:30. It is 5:00 now.
Yes, I need to hurry. The taxi will get you there in time. I hope so.
The station is only 10 minutes by taxi. Oh good, then I am fine. Yes, you have plenty of time.
That is a relief. I was a little worried. Don't worry, the taxis here are fast.
And do they take card? Yes, card or cash. Good, I only have my card today.
No problem. They accept card easily. Thank you for everything. It was nothing.
It was not nothing. You helped me a lot. I'm glad I could help. You are very kind.
Have a good journey. Thank you. I hope your day is good, too. Thank you.
Goodbye. Goodbye. Thank you again. The farmers market. Good morning.
Everything looks so fresh. Good morning. Thank you. Welcome. I love this market. Thank you. We are here every Sunday. I
just moved nearby. This is my first time. Oh, welcome to the neighborhood. Thank you.
What do you recommend? The tomatoes are excellent this week. They look beautiful. So red. Yes, they are from my
own garden. Really? Your own garden? Yes, about 20 miles from here. That is impressive. How much are they? $2.50 per
pound. I will take 2 lb, please. Of course. Anything else? Yes, what are those green vegetables? Those are
zucchini, very fresh. I don't cook them often. They are very easy to cook. Really? How? Slice them thin, fry in
olive oil. That sounds simple. Add salt and pepper. Done. I will try that tonight. You will like it, I promise.
Okay, I will take three zucchini. Three zucchini. Good choice. And the peaches, how much? $1.50 each or four for $5.
Four for $5. That is good. Yes, they are very sweet. I love peaches in summer. Me, too. The season is short. Enjoy them
now. You are right. I will take four. Good. Let me add it all up. Of course. Tomatoes, $5. Zucchini, $2. Peaches, $5.
That is $12 in total? Yes, exactly $12. Here is $15. And $3 change. Thank you. Thank you.
Everything is so beautiful. We work hard every week. It shows, really. Do you cook a lot? I am learning. I am a
beginner. Fresh ingredients make cooking easier. Ha, I hope so. Come back next Sunday. We have new things each week. I
will definitely come back. We'll be here at 7:00. 7:00 in the morning? Yes, the early people get the best choices. Ha,
then I will come early. Good. See you next week. Yes, thank you for everything. Goodbye. Goodbye. Enjoy your
cooking tonight. Meeting a new neighbor. Hello, are you moving in next door?
Yes, we arrived this morning. Welcome to the neighborhood. I'm James. Thank you. I'm Emma. Nice to meet you.
Nice to meet you, Emma. Do you need any help? No, thank you. The moving truck is
almost done. Good, it looks like a lot of boxes. Yes, we have too many things.
How many people are moving in? Just my husband and me, and our dog. Oh, a dog. What kind?
A golden retriever. His name is Max. I love golden retrievers. Very friendly dogs.
Yes, Max loves everyone. How long were you looking for a house? About 6 months.
That is a long search. Yes, we wanted the right neighborhood. And did you find it?
Yes, everyone seems very friendly here. We are. It is a quiet street. That is exactly what we wanted.
Are you from this city? No, we moved from Chicago. Chicago is a big city.
Yes, we wanted something smaller and calmer. Then you chose the right place.
I think so. There is a great coffee shop on the corner.
Oh, good. I really need coffee this morning. It is the best in the area.
I'll go after the movers leave. Good idea. You deserve a break. Yes, it has been a long morning.
If you need anything, I'm at number 12. Thank you, James. That is very kind of you.
Welcome to the street, Emma. Thank you. I think we will love it here. I'm sure you will. Have a good
afternoon. You too. Goodbye. Goodbye.
Talking about birthdays and ages. Is your birthday this week? Yes, on Friday. How old will you be?
30. It feels like a big birthday. Yes, 30 is a milestone. I know. I feel a little strange about
it. Strange how? I thought I would feel more grown up by
now. More organized? Yes, more settled. That feeling never
really goes away. Is that true? Yes, I'm 34 and I feel the same.
That makes me feel much better. What are you doing for your birthday? My family is coming for dinner.
How nice. Are you cooking? No, my mother is cooking. Even better. Yes, her food is wonderful.
What is she making? My favorite, pasta and chocolate cake. That sounds perfect. Simple, but
perfect. Are you having a party with friends, too? Maybe next weekend.
Am I invited? Of course. I'll send you a message. Thank you. I love birthdays. Me, too. But this one feels bigger.
All the big ones feel big at first. And then? And then you just enjoy them.
You are right. Do you have a birthday wish? Yes, to travel more. Where do you want
to go? Japan. I have always wanted to go. Japan is wonderful. I went 2 years ago.
Really? How was it? Amazing. The food, the people, everything. Then that is my wish for 30.
Make it happen. I will. Happy early birthday.
Thank you. Have a good day. You too. Goodbye. Goodbye.
First day at a new job. Good morning. I'm sorry to bother you. Not at all. How can I help? It is my
first day. I'm a little lost. Oh, welcome. I'm Rachel. Thank you. I'm Daniel. Nice to meet you. Nice to meet
you, Daniel. What department are you in? Marketing, the digital team. I'm in marketing, too. Really? That is great.
Yes, we are neighbors, then. I'll show you around. That would be very helpful. This is the main office. The kitchen is
down the hall. Good. I really need coffee. We all do on Mondays. It is Monday. That explains
everything. Yes, Mondays are always a little slow. Who is my manager?
Mr. Turner, the corner office. Should I go introduce myself now? He arrives at 9:00. You have 20 minutes. Then I'll
have coffee first. Good idea. How did you find this job? Online. I applied 3 months ago.
And now you're here. Yes, I'm very happy about it. It is a good company. I heard that. The team is very friendly. I can
see that already. Where did you work before? A small agency for 2 years. And now a
bigger team. Yes, I'm a little nervous. That is completely normal. It passes quickly. I hope so. By Friday, you'll
feel at home. I promise. Thank you, Rachel. You are very kind. Welcome to the team, Daniel. Thank you. Have a good
morning. Good luck today. Goodbye. Goodbye. Meeting at a party.
Hi. I don't think we've met before. No, I don't think so. I'm Ben. Nice to meet you, Ben. I'm Sophie. Nice to meet you,
Sophie. How do you know the host? We went to college together. And you? We work
together at the design studio. Oh, are you a designer? Yes, graphic design. And you? I'm a nurse. That is a very
important job. Thank you. Long hours, but I love it. Which hospital? The city hospital. I work with
children. Pediatrics. That must be very rewarding. Yes, hard sometimes, but very rewarding. I admire
that. Is this your first time at one of his parties? No, he has one every few months. Yes, he loves bringing people
together. He does. I've met good friends here. Really? That is lovely. Are you from this city? No, I moved here 2 years
ago from Portland. Do you like it here? Yes, the city is very lively. There is always something to do. Do you live
nearby? 10 minutes away. I walked tonight. Nice. I took a taxi. The weather is perfect for walking. Yes, it
is a beautiful evening. Can I get you a drink? Yes, please. Just water for me. One moment. Thank you, Ben. Here you
are. Thank you. It was very nice to meet you. You too, Sophie. Enjoy the party. You too. Have a great evening. Thank
you. Goodbye. Goodbye. Choosing a future career. Have you decided what you want to do?
Not yet. It is very difficult. I know. I have the same problem. What are your options? Teaching or journalism. Those
are very different. Yes, that is the problem. What do you like about teaching? Working with young people and
the summers. Summers off, that is a big advantage. Yes, and the stability. What about journalism? I love writing and
every day is different. Yes, you meet interesting people. Exactly, but the hours are long. And the salary
is not always good. That is true. What about you? I want to be a doctor. That is a very clear goal. Yes, I've
wanted it since I was 10. Since you were 10? That is strong. But medical school is very expensive. How much does it
cost? About $200,000 in total. That is a lot. Yes, but doctors earn well afterward. True.
How many years of study? 8 years. 8 years? That is a real commitment. Yes, but I am ready. I admire your focus.
Thank you. You will find your answer, too. Maybe I can do both. How? Teach during the week, write on weekends. That
is actually very smart. We will see. Whatever you choose, you will be good at it. Thank you. That means a lot. Good
luck with your decision. And good luck with medical school. Thank you. Have a good day. You too. Goodbye. Goodbye.
First day at a new school. Excuse me, is this room 12B? Yes. Are you new here? Yes, it is my first day.
Welcome. I'm Lily. Thank you. I'm Mia. Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you, Mia. Where are you from? Boston. My family
just moved here. That is far. Do you like it here so far? I'm not sure yet. It is only my first day. That is fair.
It takes a little time. Yes, everything feels very different. Is this school bigger than your old one? Yes, much
bigger. I got lost this morning. Everyone gets lost at first. Don't worry. That makes me feel better. The
school has four buildings. Four buildings? That is a lot. Yes, but you will learn quickly. Which teacher do
we have now? Ms. Garcia. She teaches English. Is she nice? Very nice and very funny. Good. I love English class.
Really? Me, too. What is your favorite subject? Art. I love drawing. I love drawing, too. Then you must join the art
club. There is an art club? Yes, every Thursday after school. That sounds perfect. Come with me this Thursday.
Really? Thank you so much. Of course. Everything is better with a friend. Yes. I am nervous about meeting new people.
Don't be. Everyone there is very friendly. You are very kind, Lily. Welcome to the school, Mia. Thank you. I
feel better already. Good. Sit next to me in class. Thank you. I will. Ms. Garcia is coming now. Okay. Ready. It
will be a good day. I promise. I think so, too. See you after class. See you then. Goodbye.
Part-time job interview. Good morning. I have an interview at 10:00. Good morning. You must be Clara.
Yes, Clara Davis. I'm Mr. Owen, the manager. Please sit down. Thank you.
You are applying for the part-time cashier position. Yes, that's right. How many hours can you work per week?
About 20 hours. We need someone on weekends. Is that okay? Yes, weekends are fine.
And some evenings? Yes, I am free from 4:00. Good. Do you have any work experience?
Yes, I worked at a bookstore last year. For how long? 8 months. Why did you leave?
The store closed, unfortunately. I understand. What was your role?
I helped customers and managed the cash register. This job is very similar.
I know. I feel comfortable with customers. That is the most important thing here.
I also love coffee. Then you are in the right place. Yes, I come here often, actually.
I know. I've seen you before. Really? Yes, you always order the same drink. An oat milk latte.
Exactly. We like loyal customers. I hope that helps my application. It does. Do you have any questions for
me? Yes. What is the hourly pay? $15 per hour plus tips.
That is very good. Thank you. The customers here are very generous. Good to know.
We will contact you by Friday. Perfect. Thank you for your time, Mr. Owen.
Thank you for coming in, Clara. Have a good day. You, too. Goodbye.
Goodbye. Meeting at a wedding. Excuse me, is this seat taken? No,
please sit down. Thank you. What a beautiful wedding. Yes, everything is perfect today. Do you know the bride or
the groom? The bride. We went to school together. And you? I know the groom. We play tennis. Small
world. Yes. I'm Michael. Nice to meet you. I'm Julia. Nice to meet you, Julia. The ceremony was so emotional. Yes, I
almost cried. Me, too. The vows were beautiful. He wrote them himself. Really? That is very romantic. Yes, he
worked on them for 2 months. It showed. Every word was perfect. The venue is stunning, too. Yes, I love these
gardens. Have you been here before? No, first time. Mine, too. The flowers are amazing. Yes, all real, I think. Of
course, nothing but the best today. Are you staying for dinner? Yes, are you? Yes, I'm at table six. I'm at table
seven. We are close. Good, we can talk more. The food smells wonderful already. Yes, I am very hungry. Me, too. Did you
travel far? 2 hours by car. Worth it for this wedding. Absolutely. Have you met the bride's family yet? Not
yet. They are very warm people. You will love them. I look forward to it. Shall we get a drink while we wait? Yes,
let's. After you, Michael. Thank you, Julia. Breakfast at the hotel.
Good morning. May I sit here? Of course. Please sit down. Thank you. It is very busy this morning.
Yes, it is always full at 8:00. I usually come earlier, but I was tired. Did you travel far?
Yes, from Seattle. A 5-hour flight. That is a long journey. Yes, but I arrived safely. That is what
matters. Are you here for work or for vacation? Work. A conference downtown. How long
are you staying? 3 days, until Thursday. And you?
The same, until Thursday. Then we may see each other again. Perhaps here, at breakfast. Yes, I come
every morning. My name is David. Nice to meet you, David. I'm Maria. Nice to meet you, Maria.
What do you recommend? The eggs are excellent and the fresh fruit. Good. I love eggs in the morning.
The pancakes are also very good. I'll try both, then. The coffee is very strong. Be ready.
Perfect. I need strong coffee today. Then you will be very happy. Is breakfast included in your rate?
Yes. I'm paying $150 a night. Same as me. Very good value. Yes, the hotel is excellent. My room is
very clean and quiet. Mine, too. I slept very well. That is important after a long trip.
Exactly. Enjoy your breakfast, Maria. You, too. Have a good conference.
Thank you. Have a wonderful day. Goodbye. Goodbye. Conversation on the train.
Excuse me, is this seat free? Yes, please sit down. Thank you. The train is very full
tonight. Yes, Friday evenings are always busy. Are you traveling far?
To Oakfield, about 1 hour. I'm going to Riverside, just past Oakfield. Then we take the same route.
Do you make this trip often? Every week. I work in the city. And you live in Oakfield? Yes, for 5
years now. Is it a nice town? Very nice. Quiet and green. That sounds lovely.
I love coming home to it. The city can be exhausting. Exactly.
And you? Do you travel often? Every weekend. I visit my parents in Riverside.
They have lived there long? 30 years. They love it. Riverside is beautiful, especially the river.
Yes, I walk along it every Sunday morning. Really? I walk there, too, sometimes. Maybe we have passed each
other. Maybe. Small world. It really is. Is the train usually on
time? Usually. Small delays sometimes. I hope not tonight. Do you have plans this evening?
Yes, dinner with my family. How nice. My daughter is cooking tonight. How old is she? 16. She loves cooking.
That is wonderful at 16. Yes, I'm very proud of her. You should be. And you? Plans for the weekend?
A quiet one. My parents and a long walk. That sounds perfect. Yes, simple is best sometimes.
I agree. Here we are, Oakfield already. Yes, that went quickly.
Good conversation makes time fly. It does. Enjoy your weekend. Enjoy your dinner.
Goodbye. Goodbye. The strange magazine article. Did you see the magazine in the
breakroom? Which one? There are several. The one with the blue cover. Yes, I saw it. Did you read the article on page 12?
No, what is it about? A man who lives with 20 cats. 20 cats in one apartment? Yes, and he talks to them every morning.
How strange. He has a different name for each one. What kind of names? Strange ones, like Professor and Princess Fluff.
Princess Fluff? That is quite funny. And he cooks dinner for them every evening. Dinner? Real cooked food? Yes, fresh
chicken and fish every day. That is more than I cook for myself. Me, too. Is he married? No, he says the cats are his
family. That is sweet and a little strange. Very strange. But he looks very happy. Happy is what matters. True. Does
he work? Yes, he is a veterinarian. Of course, that makes perfect sense. How big is his apartment? Not very big, two
bedrooms. Two bedrooms and 20 cats? There must be cat beds everywhere. Yes, and he spends $40 on food every day. $40
a day? Yes, [clears throat] over $1,000 a month for cats. That is incredible,
but he loves them. I can see that. Would you ever do that? 20 cats? Absolutely not. I have one, that is enough. Me,
too. One is perfect. But it is a good article. Yes, very strange, but interesting. Page 12, don't miss it.
I'll read it at lunch, thank you. Have a good morning. You, too. Goodbye. The fake engagement ring.
Can I tell you something? Of course, what is it? I think my engagement ring is fake.
Fake? What do you mean? I took it to a jeweler yesterday. And?
He said the diamond is not real. Are you sure? Yes, he tested it.
What did he say, exactly? He said it is glass, not a diamond. Glass? [sighs]
Oh, no, I'm so sorry. I was completely shocked. Did you tell Mark?
Not yet. I don't know what to say. Did you choose the ring together? No, he chose it alone. It was a
surprise. Then maybe he didn't know it was fake. That is what I hope.
How much did you think it cost? About $2,000. And the jeweler said?
Maybe $20. It is glass. $20?
Yes. Some stores sell fake jewelry. It is very dishonest.
Yes, I think Mark was tricked. You need to talk to him. I know, I'm nervous.
He will want to know the truth. Yes, he loves me. He would never do this on purpose.
Of course not, he will be as shocked as you. I think so.
Do you still love him? Yes, the ring doesn't change that. That is what matters most. Yes, but I
want a real ring one day. Tell him honestly, he will understand. You are right.
He will want to fix it immediately. I hope so. Mark is a good man, I know it.
Thank you, I feel a little better. Talk to him tonight. I will.
Good luck, let me know. I will. Thank you, goodbye.
Goodbye. The new building rules. Did you see the new notice in the lobby?
Yes, I read it this morning. What do you think? Honestly, some rules are fine, others
are strange. I agree. No music after 9:00? That is very early.
Yes, some people are still awake at 9:00. What about the parking rule?
One car per apartment, that is a problem for me. You have two cars? Yes, my wife and I
both drive. That is difficult. And guests cannot park after 8:00.
That is too strict. Yes, we have family visiting sometimes. What about the laundry room? Only
between 7:00 and 7:00. 7:00 in the morning to 7:00 at night? Yes, before it was open until 10:00.
That was much better. The notice says it is for noise reduction.
But the machines are in the basement. Exactly, nobody can hear them. It makes no sense.
Are you going to say something? Yes, there's a meeting on Thursday. A building meeting?
Yes, the manager invited everyone. Good, we can share our concerns. Many people are unhappy.
I spoke to Mrs. Kim on the second floor. And? She is very upset about the no pets
rule. No pets? That is new? Yes, it is on page two.
Oh, no, I have a cat. Many people here have pets. That rule cannot stand. Come to the
Thursday meeting. I will, definitely. Good, we are stronger together. Yes, see you Thursday.
See you then, have a good day. You, too. Goodbye. Goodbye.
The birthday planning. Can we talk about Tom's birthday? Yes, it is in two weeks.
I want to do something special. Me, too. What are you thinking? A surprise party.
Oh, he would love that. Yes, but we must be very careful. He cannot know, not a word.
Exactly. Can you keep a secret? Always. Good. I'm thinking Saturday evening.
That works, he is always free on Saturdays. We can use my apartment. How many
people? About 20. Close friends only. Not too big, not too small, perfect.
What about food? Pizza and salad is simple and good. Yes, and a birthday cake, of course.
What is his favorite flavor? Chocolate, always chocolate. There is a wonderful bakery on 5th Street. I know
it, their cakes are excellent. About $40 for a large one. I can cover the cake.
And I'll take care of the drinks. Perfect. What time should guests arrive? 7:00, Tom arrives at 7:30.
Everyone must be inside by 6:50. And lights off when he knocks. Exactly, he will be so surprised.
Who brings him to your apartment? Can you do that? Yes, I'll say we are going to dinner.
Perfect, he will never suspect. He always falls for surprises. Yes, he is very trusting.
This is going to be a wonderful party. I think so, too. Should we make a list? Yes, right now.
Let's start. Have a good day after. You, too. Goodbye.
Goodbye. The new intern. Did you meet the new intern this
morning? Yes, she seems very bright. Yes, she asked excellent questions. I was impressed.
Me, too. What is her name? Emma Clark, final year at State University. Studying what? Business and
communications. A perfect match for this department. Yes, she is very well prepared. Who is
she working with? Mr. Cooper asked me to look after her. Oh, that is a real responsibility.
Yes, a little nerve-racking, honestly. Why nervous? I don't want to teach her bad habits.
You don't have bad habits. Thank you. I hope that is true. What project is she on? The social media
campaign. That is a big project for a first week. Yes, but she is excellent with
technology. Better than us, probably. Definitely better than me.
She is young. Very energetic. It is refreshing. Does it make you feel old? A little, but
I'm only joking. How long is her internship? 3 months. That goes quickly.
Yes, I hope she takes away a lot. She will, especially with you guiding her.
That is very kind. Should we take her to lunch today? Yes, great idea. She should feel
welcome. Let's invite her at 12. I'll tell her now.
Good. See you at 12. See you then. Goodbye. Goodbye.
The lifestyle magazine. Did you get the new issue of Bright Life?
No, what is in it this month? Everything. Food, travel, home design, beauty. Sounds like a lot. It is my
favorite magazine. How often does it come out? Every month, and I read every single page.
Every page? That is very dedicated. I know, but it is always interesting. What is the best article this month?
About a woman who left her job to travel. Really? And?
She traveled alone for one full year. Alone? That is very brave. Yes, to 30 countries.
30 countries in 1 year? Yes, she took photos and wrote about everything.
And now it is published? Eight pages of beautiful photos. That sounds incredible.
It is. I want to do the same thing someday. Travel for a year alone?
Yes, one day. What about your job? I know. That is always the problem.
And the cost. How much did she spend? About $20,000.
That is a lot of saving. She saved for 3 years. 3 years of discipline? I admire that.
Is there anything else in the magazine? Yes, a recipe for lemon cake. Oh, I love lemon cake.
I'm going to make it this weekend. Can I try some? Come on Sunday. Perfect. I'll bring good coffee.
Even better. Thank you. See you Sunday. See you then. Goodbye.
Goodbye. The magic face cream. I bought something very special this
week. Oh, what is it? A face cream. You always buy face cream. This one is different. How? The label says it
removes 10 years. 10 years? From your face? Yes, in just 2 weeks. That sounds too good to be true. I know, but I tried
it anyway. And? I don't know yet. It is only day three. How much did it cost? $80.
$80 for a face cream? Yes, but it is very luxurious.
What does it smell like? Roses and something warm and sweet. Does it feel good? Yes, like silk on the skin. And
the packaging? Beautiful. A small gold jar. It sounds more like a gift than a product. Yes, I almost didn't want to
open it. Where did you buy it? The beauty store on Oak Street. I know it. Very expensive shop. Yes, but I had a
gift card. Oh, so it was almost free. Almost. I paid $30 extra. That is more reasonable. Yes. Do you think it really
works? My skin is already softer. Really? Yes, or maybe I want to believe it does. That happens with expensive
products. You are probably right. But softer skin is good either way. Yes, I'll give you a full report in 2 weeks.
I'll be waiting. You will be my first call. Good. Take care of that gold jar. I will. Have a good day. You too.
Goodbye. Goodbye. Knocking down the wall. I've been thinking about the kitchen
wall. What about it? I want to knock it down.
Knock it down? Yes, to open the kitchen into the living room.
An open plan? Exactly. It would feel so much bigger.
That is a big project. I know, but I saw it in a magazine. And it looked good? Beautiful. So much
light, so much space. Is it a main wall? I'm not sure. We need a professional.
Yes, we can't just knock it down. Of course not. I'm not impulsive. I know, just checking.
I'll call a contractor this week. How much do you think it will cost? A friend did the same thing last year.
How much? $3,000. 3,000?
Yes, but her apartment looks completely new. Do you think ours would look the same?
Even better. We have more space. That is true. And we could put a big dining table in
the center. I like that. With good light above it. And maybe new kitchen counters?
One step at a time. Of course, the wall first. Exactly. Are you excited? Yes, a little nervous, too.
It will be wonderful, I promise. I trust you. Good. I'll make the call tomorrow.
This is going to be great. I think so, too. Have a good evening.
You too. Goodbye. Goodbye. Time to find a job.
Have you found anything yet? No, not yet. How long has it been now? 3 months. That is a long time. I know. I'm getting
worried. What kind of work are you looking for? Something in marketing or communications.
That is a wide field. Yes, but the competition is very high. How many applications have you sent?
About 30. And? Three interviews, no offers. Three from 30? That is hard. Yes. Don't give up. I'm trying not to.
Have you updated your LinkedIn profile? Yes, last week. Good. Connections are very important now. I know. My network
is still quite small. Contact your university professors. Oh, that is a good idea. They often know
companies that are hiring. I hadn't thought of that. And your old internship? Can you go back? Peterson
and Co.? Yes. Did you leave on good terms? Yes, very good terms. Then send them a message today. Do you think they
have positions? It is worth asking. You are right. Your skills are strong. Someone will see that. Thank you. I just
need one chance. You will get it. I hope so. Don't lose your confidence. That is the most important thing. You always
make me feel better. That is what friends are for. Thank you. I'll email Peterson and Co. right now. Good. Let me
know what they say. I will. Have a good day. Good luck. Goodbye. Goodbye.
Training the boss's daughter. Did you hear the news? What news?
Mr. Grant's daughter is joining the company. Oh, really?
Yes, she starts Monday. Which department? Ours.
Marketing? Yes. And?
Mr. Grant asked me to train her. You specifically? He said I am the best trainer on the
team. That is a real compliment. Yes, but also a lot of pressure.
Because she's the boss's daughter. Exactly. Everything I do will be noticed.
I understand that completely. What if I make a mistake? You won't. You never do.
Thank you, but still What is she like? I don't know yet.
Has anyone met her? Rachel did at last year's company dinner.
And? Very quiet, very polite. Quiet and polite is good.
Yes, better than difficult. Does she have any experience? She just finished university.
So, completely fresh. Yes, a clean start. Like any other new hire.
Exactly. I'll treat her the same as everyone. That is the right approach.
I won't act differently because of her father. That is very professional.
I hope she works hard. Mr. Grant works very hard. It probably runs in the family.
That is a good point. You will be great. I know it. Thank you. I'm a little nervous.
Just be yourself. That is always enough. Good advice. She is lucky to have you as her trainer.
I hope she agrees on Friday. She will. Good luck on Monday. Thank you. Have a good day.
You too. Goodbye. Goodbye.
Begin by approaching fellow newcomers who understand the challenges of relocating. Share basic details like when you arrived and where you previously lived, and express your feelings about adjusting to help build empathy. Engaging in open and honest exchanges creates a welcoming atmosphere for deeper connections.
Recognize that making friends takes time and be patient with the process. Participate in communal activities such as lunch or coffee breaks with colleagues or classmates, which foster natural opportunities to bond and lessen feelings of isolation.
Organizing group visits to prominent spots like the old town, river walk, or central market turns exploration into shared experiences, reducing overwhelm and facilitating connection. Regular meet-ups for coffee or sightseeing encourage conversation and help create lasting relationships through common adventures.
Be attentive to casual interactions such as helping someone with heavy bags or borrowing a phone, as these can spark conversations. Additionally, attend workplace events, parties, or community gatherings where social interactions are more likely, and be open to invitations to deepen your social network.
Participate in activities centered around shared hobbies like visiting farmers markets, attending community events, or joining clubs related to art or sports. These environments offer comfortable settings to meet like-minded individuals and establish friendships based on mutual passions.
Start by exchanging contact information with new acquaintances to facilitate ongoing communication. Schedule regular meet-ups and stay in touch to nurture the relationship, ensuring that friendships deepen over time and provide meaningful support during your adjustment period.
Taking initiative in reaching out, participating in community activities, and embracing daily social opportunities helps ease feelings of loneliness and accelerates the process of feeling at home. Active engagement builds a network of connections that supports emotional wellbeing and enriches your experience in the new environment.
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