How to Get Him to Chase You: Mastering Desire and Letting Go
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Introduction
Are you tired of always being on the opposite side of the chasing game? Do you often find yourself obsessing over men, constantly checking your phone, wondering when he’s going to text you back? If you’ve ever felt frustrated by a lack of attention from the men you desire, you’re not alone. I once found myself in the same position, desperately seeking a guy’s attention and doing everything I could to get noticed. This article will discuss how to shift from being the one who chases to the one who is pursued. Let’s dive in!
Understanding the Chase
The Dynamics of Desire
When you desire someone so deeply, it often emanates a vibe of neediness. This yearning indicates a chasing energy—an energy rooted in lack and desperation. If you constantly find yourself thinking, "I want him to text me back," you are relaying a message to the universe that you don’t have it. This can create a cycle of undesirable outcomes.
The Feminine Energy
One of the first steps to stop chasing is to tap into your feminine energy. Feminine energy is all about being receptive. When you embrace this energy, you invite positivity and potential into your life. Here’s how connecting with your feminine energy can shift the dynamics:
- Be Receptive: Become open to receiving attention instead of pushing for it.
- Embrace Your Worth: Recognizing your self-worth helps to cultivate a magnetic presence.
The Key Principle for Attracting Love
Letting Go of Desire
The core principle I want to share with you is the power of letting go of desire. When your emotions are caught in the realm of wanting, it reinforces the idea that you lack what you desire. Instead, focus on the state of being. Here’s how to shift your mindset:
- Take a Deep Breath: Center yourself. Inhale through the nose and exhale through the mouth.
- Acknowledge Your Feelings: Recognize how you feel about your desires.
- Shift Your Energy: Move from a state of wanting to embodying the feelings of already having what you desire.
The Art of Surrender
This technique involves surrendering to the moment and letting go of negative thoughts that tether you to inability. Here are practical steps to help with this:
- Visualize Your Desire: Picture your desire and imagine cutting the connection to it, imagining it falling away.
- Feel Your Emotions: Allow yourself to feel the energy of desire fully and then release it.
- Stop Overthinking: Recognize that your mind may try to convince you of your inability to let go. Refute those thoughts by affirming your capability.
Embracing a New Emotional State
Filling the Void
Often, our attraction to a person stems from unfulfilled emotional needs. For example, you might feel attracted to a man because he represents excitement or security you lack. Acknowledge these feelings and fill them within yourself instead of relying on someone else.
- Identify the Emotion: What are you seeking from this person—fun, safety, love? Pinpoint it.
- Activate Those Feelings: Recall moments in your life when you felt secure, excited, or loved. Walk through those memories, letting the emotion permeate your body.
Practice Mindfulness
Being present in the moment enhances your emotional state and helps you detach from obsessive thoughts. Consider incorporating mindfulness techniques:
- Meditation: Spend time in meditative practices focusing on embodying the desired emotions.
- Affirmation: Use affirmations to reinforce feelings of worthiness and completeness—"I am loving. I am deserving."
The Magic of Being
Attracting Attention Effortlessly
By shifting your energy from "I want" to "I am," you start to attract the attention you desire without it feeling forced. Here are a few final insights:
- Relax and Be Calm: Just as cats often run away from those who chase, intimacy requires a relaxed approach. Be chill and allow attraction to develop naturally.
- Focus Elsewhere: As you learn the art of letting go, shift your focus to other interests, hobbies, or friendships, allowing attraction to unfold organically.
Conclusion
In summary, the key to attracting men and getting them to chase you lies in understanding the principles of desire and the importance of letting go. Tap into your feminine energy, practice surrendering, and embrace the art of being. As you start embodying the emotion of having what you want, you’ll find that the world responds with newfound opportunities and attention. Let go of obsession, nurture your self-worth, and watch how effortlessly love comes your way. I hope these insights empower you in your journey. Let me know how your experiences change when you start practicing these techniques!
so you want him to chase you are you tired of always being on the opposite side of the chasing game where you find
yourself always chasing after men visualizing that obsessing over men looking at your phone wondering when
he's going to text you and sometimes he never texts you back and you're just like what is going on why doesn't he
want me back why don't people want me why am I not being pursued let's have a really good conversation about this and
you know I was in your position I used to be always in the position of wanting to always get a guy's attention I would
be an attention in front of the guy that I loved I would do the most so that he could finally notice me if he
didn't text me back I would post stuff on my story to hopefully try to get him to you know feel bad and to text me back
say is first tap into your feminine energy because when you happen to your feminine energy you become receptive the
feminine is the receptive force and what brings things in and I can tell you to do that or I can also tell you one key
principle that can completely shift your life right now and if you understand this key principle you will never be in
a place in life where or you or very rarely where you find yourself be in a place where you are wanting wanting
wanting a guy so badly or wanting anything so badly and you can't seem to get it let's Dive In
the thing is when we find ourselves obsessing and doing all the things to manifest and to attract a guy the
vibrations that we are sending out to the universe is the vibrations of desire and the underlying feeling of Desire is
need it's want it's have to have it's chasing energy now when we find ourselves you know vibrating on the
standpoint of Desire so we want something right we know it's not bad like you have a desire you know you want
it you crave it good you know the actual root word of Desire means of God of the Stars whatever the case is whatever you
believe in of God of the Stars when you have a desire that means instead of staying in that vibration you need to
take that as an indicator that the thing that you want is about to come into your life so as soon as you have a desire and
in this standpoint you have a desire you want a guy to text you back to call you to have his attention to chase you the
most important thing I want you to do that will completely change your life from this moment on is as soon as you
find yourself caught up in desire I need you to hang up the desire and tap into the energy of being when you are stuck
in the state of desire you are stuck in the state of I want I want I want and by definition when you want something you
are telling the universe that you don't have it so when you don't have the thing and you are vibrating on the thing of I
don't have I don't have I don't have guess what you're going to continue to manifest not having the damn thing so
the first thing I need you to do is hang up on the desire Let It Go and to literally surrender to the moment and
now I know you're gonna ask oh my God Jay sounds freaking easy I'm literally caught up in Obsession right now I'm
addicted okay how do I stop wanting the thing you need to practice stepping into the energy of one already having so
let's be real when we find ourselves obsessively thinking about another person it's really not the other person
it's ourselves there's something about that person that is triggering a subconscious desire of something within
us that has not been fulfilled so if you're able to pinpoint the underlying feeling and emotion then you will be
able to feel that void within yourself currently for example sometimes you see a guy he's super attractive maybe he's
super wealthy that means maybe the subconscious reason for why you are attracted to him is because you are
seeking security right now you are seeking security you're seeking safety financially or non-final financially
another guy could be representing fun and excitement whatever it is that you are missing you have to fill yourself up
with that emotion ASAP because if you fill yourself up with that emotion that's how you are going to take all the
attention from I don't have I don't have and bring it back to I am I am I am I am loving it right so you do that by once
you've pinpoint the emotion that you are missing in your life whether it's love excitement money security safety
whatever it is you are Desiring from that person or from that partner you need to practice embodying those
emotions in the here and now so if you want a relationship a specific person because they give like heavy sexual
Vibes or like they're super sexy right then I would tell you to close your eyes and I would tell you to activate those
emotions right here right now so literally close your eyes right now and let's say and insert a motion right so
let's say you are looking to feel sexy or you're looking to feel excitement you're looking to feel happiness you're
looking to feel love whatever the emotion is pinpoint it and I want you to start running that through your body and
activating that in your body right now you can think of a moment or a memory where you felt that way before or
understand and trust that you can activate any emotion that you want currently in your body so do that right
now in this moment activate happiness fill your body up with happiness and excitement and sexy and sexiness or
whatever it is so practice doing that instead of focusing on him the next key is you want to practice The Art of
Letting Go Let It Go literally just allow yourself to surrender to the desire okay feel all the Motions of the
desire all at once so feel all that energy of I need I need I need and just feel it in the moment
you'll find that it will actually run out one of my favorite ways to also let go of a desire is to literally picture
the desire in my head and almost picture a rope between me and the desire or me and the thing that I want to let go of
and I just imagined snipping it and it falling down into a black hole and that really helps me to enter that
state when I find myself caught up in overthinking mode I just snip it and let it go snip it Let It Go snip it let it
go and you have to let go of any of the beliefs that are gonna come after that so your mind is going to try its hardest
to try to convince you that you can't let things go your mind is going to say things like it's not that easy snip it
let that go your mind is going to say things like oh but I need it I if if I don't focus on this thing then I'm not
going to be able to have it snip it Let It Go your mind is going to say things like oh but it's impossible for me I'm
an overthinker snip it let it go so all the beliefs that come up when you're in the Letting Go process snip it let it go
and you'll find once you do that you will completely enter a state of surrender to the moment and present and
the moment that you do that next thing you know the guy's texting you next thing you know he's all up in your DMs
next thing you know even better guy is right there at the dough but my biggest advice to you is to
really learn the art of letting it go and just getting out of obsession and get back into being if you get into the
energy of being that is how you can attract anything that you desire towards you easily and effortlessly but it's not
gonna come if you are so focused on the thing because being so focused on the thing is chasing energy and by Nature
the more that you chase something and you grab at something and you want something the more it naturally wants to
walk and run away from you just imagine a cat and I don't know if you guys ever seen a cat or been around a cat if you
go and try to like run up to a cat the cat is gonna run away from you but if you kind of just are chill and relaxed
the cat will find its way towards you that's how you want to be when it comes to your crushes and when it comes to
people that you desire and even things that you want in your life it could be money whatever the case is fill yourself
up with the thing and it actually get out of the emotion of lack and put yourself in the emotion of having to
meditate on how it feels to already have the thing and three let go and surrender as soon as you set that intention and
you feel all those emotions like it already is Let It Go just Let It Go Focus your attention elsewhere and trust
that you are capable of letting it go even if your mind tries to convince you otherwise it's all a lie it's just your
ego trying to convince you don't listen to it let it go snip sip sip snip and you'll be on your way to living a life
where things are a lot easier and you're not gonna be so worried all right I hope that was able to help
you guys comment down below and let me know if that was able to bring some of you guys out there please let me know
how this works for you let me know how fast that guy texts you back let me know how fast a better guy shows up in your
life when you start practicing the art of surrender a book that I would highly recommend is the Art of Letting Go by Mr
David R Hawkins I think that's what his name is I will link it down below in the description but if you do want to really
practice this I would highly recommend joining rgc which has two courses of mine which could be the feminine
seduction course or goddess of work taking both of these courses is really going to allow you to like get back into
yourself and energy as a woman and like literally build confidence build self-worth so that no one is ever going
to make you stuck in the energy of Desire again just like the Bible says I'm not religious but just like the
Bible says I shall not want you shall not want because you are already have when you already have there is no need
to want there's no need desire you have it anyway so you need to step into the energy of being it and like living your
life as it and when you do that that's when things roll in so that's what we talk about in the feminine seduction
course that's what we talk about in goddess of worth and so many like literally a bunch of courses and classes
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